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Originally posted by FallingMoon I am just curious to know because some guys have such large illusions on how their "ideal" girl should be & either 1. they never get them or 2. the girl they actually find is a bitch.

switch out "illusions" with "day dreams"... people like to imagine what their soulmate will look and act like but it's rare that we ever find and fall in love with someone who fits that description exactly. if anything, i think having a specific and pre-conceived idea in your head of the type of person you're going to fall in love with is a waste of time and really just hinders your chances of meeting someone who you truly click with. i think it's better to keep your mind & heart open.

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Originally posted by Pee Sprinkles I think that either having too high, too low, or just right standards all fall short of the reality that when you and a person click, you click. You quickly realize that you dont really understand people as well as you thought you did hehe. Or yourself for that matter.

Well said

what makes someone perfect for me is complete comfort with each other. sure i have things that i'm attracted to, but when you find someone that you can really be yourself and not be worried about what they'll think of things you do and say...then that's something special...i've dated too many girls where the whole relationship i'm trying to please them because i'm constantly worried about messing up or making them happy.

anyting with two legs.

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Originally posted by nfekted anyting with two legs.

Hopefully you don't work at a zoo.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller what makes someone perfect for me is complete comfort with each other. sure i have things that i'm attracted to, but when you find someone that you can really be yourself and not be worried about what they'll think of things you do and say...then that's something special...i've dated too many girls where the whole relationship i'm trying to please them because i'm constantly worried about messing up or making them happy.

true love is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another

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Originally posted by lücid true love is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another

a little cheesy...but i like it

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Originally posted by DOOMBOT Hopefully you don't work at a zoo.

i do that monkey was a rather interesting date.

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Physically I wouldnt care if my "ideal girl" didnt match up to my girlfriend however mentally and morally the girl must have the qualities that Im looking for or I'll just break up with her.

on a serious note, I know it's used and abused: but the girl has to have some humor in her, without a doubt. I don't date serious bitches with attitude! f that. That's the main one for me.

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Originally posted by Clovis86 Plus, I dont choose who I fall in love with...it happens.

exactly. You can't help feeling for the people you truly like, and I think while they may not be perfect, if you end up with them its good. If not i would give in a lot cos i'd rather have something in a non-perfect way than not have anything