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Originally posted by deejay2002 it really doesnt mean anything? i mean it's not like im gonna get her number or anything. if my g/f gave out her number after dancing with another guy then it's a totally different story.

LOL no

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Originally posted by DOOMBOT You're a totally different story.

Your mom is a totally different story

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hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.

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Originally posted by DJ RJT Unacceptable. Edit: Also, inappropriate.

What he said times ten.
It imo is something that people going out, or people that aren't with someone already, do.
I'd grind with a chick when out, and I'd expect any girl, not in a relationship to, but if your in one, its very very inappropriate.

Hell no.

ad tell her, if she does it agein shes dumped, and if she does, shes dumped. End of story.

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Originally posted by Arbiter You're impressively stupid, that's for sure. I'd give you advice, but I cannot in good conscience take any action which could potentially increase the odds that you'll reproduce. I'm sorry.

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Originally posted by deejay2002 hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.

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Originally posted by deejay2002 Some people say it's dry humping or having sex with clothes on but I just dont see it that way. If the girl wants to go out with her friends and have a good time, which means drinking and dancing with other guys. I'm not gonna say anything about it.

These two statements don't seem to mesh with each other.

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Originally posted by deejay2002 hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.

Yeah, no touching. I've been out and a girl came up to dance with me but I kept enough distance so we weren't touching but were still clearly just dancing off of eachother's vibes. In that sense, to me, it is okay because you are both clearly just trying to have fun with the music and what is going on. When you are grinding, it is for a reason.

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Originally posted by LiveTheDream ad tell her, if she does it agein shes dumped, and if she does, shes dumped. End of story.

lol sounds good but how would i find out about it ?

usually when guys are dancing and grinding is involved, the whole dance is a game -- like founding a land; waving your flag high and saying "hey everyone look! i'm all over this chick's bod! i'll be gettin some tonight! or if not, i have a massive boner right now and will get blue balls shortly!" some types of dancing are usually a way for guys to feel up a girl temporarily in public. so if youre find with some other guy's balls sweating on your girl's thigh, that's fine.

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Originally posted by deejay2002 hahahahaha i dont know, ive had this discussion with my gf and i told her that i would feel uncomfortable if she grinds with another guy but regular dancing is fine by me.

Regular dancing is one thing, but why the hell is she going off and meeting other guys at clubs without you? If she's talking to other guys that have girlfriends so it's like a couples thing, that's different. Be a man. Tell her to stop wanting to suck other guys's cocks or you'll stab her in the throat.

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its cool with me. I know who she comes home to!.... My GF recently went on a trip to Vegas and was at the ghoast bar or something and ended up dancing with AJ feely former QB of the dolphins now with the chargers. He was all trying to get her to go back to the hotel room with him and she didnt b.c she has a man at home. Point is if you trust her then it shouldnt bother you. I trust mine but I still put a ring on that finger last month just in case!

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Originally posted by deejay2002 lol sounds good but how would i find out about it ?

if you were secure in your relationship you wouldnt have to worry about it