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Very sorry to hear this but please don't feel alone either.
I grew up with my Dad and his brother (my fav uncle) both having bi-polar disorders.
I know it's not full out schizophrenia but believe me when I say this, it would have been tons easier on the family (including myself) if it was; much easier to deal with 
My problem is you can't admit them ANYWHERE unless they're a threat (to themselves or others) and they have to go willingly; with diagnosed schizophrenia that's not an issue.
It's only when they were at the peak of their 'cycles' that the cat was out of the bag so to speak, that anybody would do anything because at that time, it was more than obvious there was a problem.
Very, very, very frustrating let me tell you.
You feel very hopeless when you know your own dad is having problems and you can't help at all.
They're of sound mind and all but they have VERY wacked ideas, irregular breathing when they sleep, IF they sleep, and ideas come to them like a train without the breaks.
I hope my little story helps you out.
I know it's not easy to take and I can somewhat relate but know this, there have been leaps and bounces in this afflication over the past 10 years or so (yea, only 10 years) so have hope.
We're only just starting to understand this area and the support groups are just, within the last few years, starting to appear.
And yes, there are support groups for those that have family members with schizophrenia/bi-polar.
It's a huge toll on everyone so don't feel alone. 
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The grey rain-curtain of this world rolls back, and all change to silver glass...and then you see it...
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