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Originally posted by Jayx1 Im going through this with a friend of mine (yes he is a male) and violence has occured (she hit him among other things)... its a tough situation for sure

am I the only one that finds when men abusal funny? 'cause I laughed when I read that. Imagine the police escorting you home cause of your wife gonna kick the shit outta you.

Dude, I know you mean well and all, but who the EFF do you think you are, superman? If your friend is worried about her safety, she can call the police, if she isn't not worried about her safety, she should just leave the guy. You say she has no problem leaving a guy for good, so why doesn't she just do it then? If she is such a good friend, she probably already knew about your prior commitments (and the fact that you already drove to NYC that day!).

Does she srsly NEED you to come up to montreal to sort out a situation with her boyfriend (who has yet to abuse her)? lol Are you her only friend within a 10 hour driving radius. Come on.

You mean well, but when you move to cali you will be gone and she won't have you to deal with her relationship issues anymore (not as if you should be dealing with her relationship issues anyhow! what is she, 15 years old?). just tell her to walk away from her boyfriend, ffs. If she is scared, she can file a report with the police.

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Originally posted by nusty She is one of the sweetest most amazing girls I know and would do almost anything for her especially defending her against pricks that never deserved her in the first place.

Sounds like you feel something for this girl. Maybe you should elope to LA together.

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Originally posted by AwakenedAddict Sounds like you feel something for this girl. Maybe you should elope to LA together.

isn't he already gone anyway?

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove isn't he already gone anyway?

It doesn't mean we cant leave pointless or useless advice so that he can read when he gets in LA in a few days.

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove isn't he already gone anyway?

haha, ohh snap!

I was incommunicado all weekend, so I thought this was new business. I forgot to check the datestamp on the posts.

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Originally posted by Rodrico It doesn't mean we cant leave pointless or useless advice so that he can read when he gets in LA in a few days.

lol good point

my $0.02 - as a girl I'd probably love to have such a caring friend to come and sort things out for me, but I also wouldn't allow anyone to go through such a hassle to just save me from a dick of a bf

the situation might turn against him (Dave) if he (hopefully not) gets into a fight with the bf..

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Originally posted by AwakenedAddict haha, ohh snap! I was incommunicado all weekend, so I thought this was new business. I forgot to check the datestamp on the posts.

lol happens to the best of us

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Originally posted by Rodrico It doesn't mean we cant leave pointless or useless advice so that he can read when he gets in LA in a few days.

my point, that girl needs to grow up and nutsy needs to grow some nuts.

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove as a girl I'd probably love to have such a caring friend to come and sort things out for me

I think a lot of women would. It's nice to have a dude whipped over you and not have to give him blowjobs under the table every once in a while.

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Originally posted by AwakenedAddict I think a lot of women would. It's nice to have a dude whipped over you and not have to give him blowjobs under the table every once in a while.

Ouch. Sorta unfair, given that you dont know their relationship. But it is going far and out the call of being a friend to drive 5 hours in the opposite way of your destination point. But if shes asking for help, I dont think I couldnt say no to someone I cared about especially over something like driving 5 hours...5 hours or 10 hours in a lifetime is really nothing when you can do something to help a close friend in "real trouble". I dunno if I can see his friends situation as being "real trouble", or something that could possibly be "real trouble". I dont see him going a big thing or him not going a big thing, its really just how he feels about her and their friendship that really dictates whether its possible or not.

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Originally posted by Rodrico Ouch. Sorta unfair, given that you dont know their relationship. But it is going far and out the call of being a friend to drive 5 hours in the opposite way of your destination point. But if shes asking for help, I dont think I couldnt say no to someone I cared about especially over something like driving 5 hours...5 hours or 10 hours in a lifetime is really nothing when you can do something to help a close friend in "real trouble". I dunno if I can see his friends situation as being "real trouble", or something that could possibly be "real trouble". I dont see him going a big thing or him not going a big thing, its really just how he feels about her and their friendship that really dictates whether its possible or not.

You are absolutely right. Maybe I was a little harsh, but hey, that's internet advice for yah!

I would drive 5 hours if I was in love with a woman, or strongly cared for her, but if that was the case, then I wouldn't need to ask an internet community what to do.

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Originally posted by AwakenedAddict my point, that girl needs to grow up and nutsy needs to grow some nuts.

LOL! I strongly doubt nusty needs any balls to grow.

P.S. Where in his post did you get that he needed to grow some balls anyway?

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