Originally posted by nusty
I guess this means I have to put my taser back on the 'light zap' setting instead of 'teach em good' from now on.
lol. hmmmm, tasers are taboo these days though...people dying of heart attacks and all that crap. so maybe a kimura or triagle choke would teach them? Your kid has only learned their lesson when they tap!
I'll ad that it's kind of funny how some people still talk about spanking as a parenting tool...as if parents really give it that much thought and consideration.
I will bet anything that the VAST majority of parents who spank their kids DO NOT do so in a calm, cool-headed "I'm going to teach my kids that is wrong" disciplinary context.
I bet that most parents hit their kids out of anger and in the heat of the moment. It's akin to shock aversion therapy. The whole dad sitting you down and saying "this is going to hurt me more than it is you" after a lecture on what you did was wrong is a bullshit hollywood cliche, lol.
can anyone prove me wrong? Did your parents spank you out of "caring", after careful consideration of your punishment...or did they spank you to quickly indicate their disapproval, in the heat of the moment?
that's why I say that spanking = cop out...but still should be left to parents' discretion.
Oct-13-2006 22:24
infinity HiGH
groovin
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: west side T.O
Re: Re: Re: New anti-spanking ads sponsored by the Toronto Board of Health
quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
Of course my statement was biased. Im very against this way of thinking. That was the point of my post.
They arent talking about abuse. They make no mention of the word at all actually. They are anti spanking.
There are ads on the subway that read (paraphrasing here): "Spanking hurts more than you think".
Oct-13-2006 22:33
psychosomatica
500 posts. What a shame.
Registered: Jan 2003
Location: Toronto
Governments make moral and ethical calls all the time.
Should we provide free healthcare for those who are ill. Should we provide breakfast programs for children under the poverty line. Should we give people money who do not make any money. Should we provide public education about sex... funding for gay programs. The last example I used is an excellent example as there are many people out there who don't support homosexuality AND they pay taxes. The government is also accountable to them.
You can't just accept certain ethical/moral judgments they make and not others. By living in this country, you're indirectly supporting their decision even if you don't agree with it. Government is there to govern. And even then.. the issue of "your right" to spank a child is very subjective, just like your right to practice your own religion.. Just because it's the norm now, doesn't mean it wasn't viewed in the same light by others previously.
edit: I also want to add... child services is the same concept. Abuse is a very subjective thing. If the government wants to play it safe.. I don't blame them. I mean, if you don't feed your child a meal... versus 3 meals.. maybe even a week... who is it to make that decision as to when it becomes abuse.
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Oct-13-2006 22:54
Kytracid
No more subliminal shit..
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Lost, somewhere in the breakdown...
Re: New anti-spanking ads sponsored by the Toronto Board of Health
quote:
Originally posted by Jayx1
So im watching tv and this ad comes on with a rose and kids laughing. The the rose gets cut and a voice over comes on that says
"Spanking hurts more than you think. Parenting is hard, but it shouldn't hurt."
And the ad is from the Toronto Board of Health.
I personally think this ad is very offensive and an abuse of taxpayer money. They are implying here that parents who spank their kids are some sort of criminal or social pariah. In effect, they are calling my parents who werent afraid to give me a good smack when i deserved it, child abusers.
The fact that this ad is being aired is bad enough, but what is really offensive is that they are using taxpayer money to fund it. I'm sick and tired of governments and special interest groups trying to push their lifestyles and beliefs on our society and then going a step beyong by making anyone who doesnt agree with their point of view look like a social pariah.
I am lodging a complaint with the CRTC online this afternoon. Enough is enough
After reading this mess, i've decided the first thing imma do when my baby momma pop him outta into the world is give him a HARD *SLAP* to remind him who his daddy is.
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Oct-13-2006 22:58
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
im gonnabeat the shit out of my kids and enjoy it on every level.
im gonna spank them when they didnt even do anything wrong. cause i know they did something and i didnt find out abt it
Oct-13-2006 23:02
FunkyCrew
Ukranian Import
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
quote:
Originally posted by Abercrombie
I grew up with an easter european father, so like others here, I know what it is growing up by the hard hand.
I would never make my kids go through what I have, however from my experience, and all child/adolescent psychology courses offered at OU, a tap on the butt is not to make the pain that makes the kid remember what's wrong. It's the embarassment caused by the tap that is enduring.
I believe the butt should be the only place where a hand should lay if a child does not respond to vocal coaching.
eastern European mother, that's what we are talking about
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Oct-13-2006 23:05
Kytracid
No more subliminal shit..
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Lost, somewhere in the breakdown...
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
im gonnabeat the shit out of my kids and enjoy it on every level.
im gonna spank them when they didnt even do anything wrong. cause i know they did something and i didnt find out abt it
fuck that son that aint' shit compared to what imma do - my kids gonna hit the bricks running, placenta and umbilical cords all hanging off his toes and shit - cause that babys gonna know as soon as he pops out that his daddy's a bad muthafucka...
and slap fest dun stop at just him, imma slap his momma when he wiles out...i'll probably driva all the way to his momma's momma and slap that bitch as well.
i've got the talcum powder and baby wipes all lined up ready to go, pat that talcum powder on my palm and i'm ready to pimp slap the taste outta that babys mouth...backhand and forehand kid, it's gonna get grimey in my house ya hear!
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Oct-13-2006 23:20
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Kytracid
fuck that son that aint' shit compared to what imma do - my kids gonna hit the bricks running, placenta and umbilical cords all hanging off his toes and shit - cause that babys gonna know as soon as he pops out that his daddy's a bad muthafucka...
and slap fest dun stop at just him, imma slap his momma when he wiles out...i'll probably driva all the way to his momma's momma and slap that bitch as well.
i've got the talcum powder and baby wipes all lined up ready to go, pat that talcum powder on my palm and i'm ready to slap the taste outta that babys mouth...
thats what im talkin bout son. its gonna be a bitch slap fest. im gonna throw his momma in the fuckin camel clutch and fuck her in the ass. im gonna slap that kid so hard his kids are gonna walk around with a black eye n shit. homie ya dunknow
Oct-13-2006 23:23
Kytracid
No more subliminal shit..
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Lost, somewhere in the breakdown...
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
thats what im talkin bout son. its gonna be a bitch slap fest. im gonna throw his momma in the fuckin camel clutch and fuck her in the ass. im gonna slap that kid so hard his kids are gonna walk around with a black eye n shit. homie ya dunknow
popo be livin in my house nigga, they be taken residence in my shit, dunkin their glazed donuts in my fucking gritz just to stop me from slappin my peoples around...imma get hood on those bitches from day 1 ya hear...
imma take a shit on those bitches like i'm takin a shit in this here thread.
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Oct-13-2006 23:28
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy im gonna throw his momma in the fuckin camel clutch and fuck her in the ass.
You a cortortionist to be able to bend your body like that?