|
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
The number, itself, is of no consequence. It can be indicative of characteristics that are more relevant, but it would be more appropriate to simply observe whether or not those characteristics are presently apparent, than to assume them based on a person's past. |
exactly. there are plenty of good people out there who have gone through a typical party phase (probably in college during the dorm room days) and had many partners. doesn't mean they are doomed for life as not boyfriend or girlfriend-worthy...or even husband/wife-worthy for that matter.
if you're settling down with them, chances are, they love you, and their past sexual experiences should have nothing to do with your relationship. if you're concerned about it for health reasons, then both of you should go get tested together before you start to have unprotected, monogamous sex.
___________________

My soliloquy may be hard for some to swallow, but so is cod liver oil.
| quote: | Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone |
|