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Originally posted by jdat lol I was half joking and Subway or Mcd's hell no I never eat there anyhow! In regards to forst dates I prefer to avoid the formal restaurant type deal. If the place is too nice it can make you uptight and conversation difficult. Bouncing around to different places on a first date, maybe a little art gallery vernissage followed by some drinks then food maybe walk around club music whatever so many options so many girls to date (I'm such a bad liar ... haven't been on a date or anything serious with a girl in such a long time )

I realized you were joking but I totally thought that seemed like fun haha. mini golf, dinner, drinks & karaoke ftw!

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Originally posted by dj_bas Yes...drinking wine and staying at a hotel on a business trip is what all us young'uns are doing

Whippersnapper!

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my tactic is to keep it simple.

even if you're going to do the whole 'picnic in the park' bullshit (yes, that takes some planning), you always want to exemplify simplicity.

one of the things that makes a date romantic for a woman is the fact that she is doing NOTHING to make it romantic. This is all you.

whether it be the simplicity of nature
or the simple notion that she doesn't have to lift a finger...

analyze your lady paying key attention to likes and dislikes, and seriously........a cheap date can always turn into something amazing.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak Don't spend alot of money on this girl if you really like her.

not every girl is a potential gold digger

when my boyfriend invited me for the first time after NYE we went to a fancy restaurant and we werent even sure if we would see each other again

3 months later we are still together in spite of the distance

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2/09/07 Zabiela @ Pacha..... -confirmed-

erik + andy + marie = united in nerdyness <3

ps :wick sucks dicks !

Sorry Marie, just not much of a romantic anymore.If you give them the Rocco Sifreddi stare as you experience the sensual delights of her beef petal is enough affection IMO

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Originally posted by DJ-Kreing^^ Don’t Ever pay for a girl on your first date and not even on the second or third.

I noticed you failed to mention the point at which you should start paying for dinner. Perhaps there's a reason you stopped at three.

Regarding paying, maybe it's pointlessly old-fashioned, but you're supposed to be paying for everything. Period. That doesn't mean you need to be dropping 200 bucks on dinner right off the bat, but whatever you decide to do, it should be on your dime. Oddly enough, the more expensive it is, the more inappropriate it becomes for you to do anything but pick up all the checks.

Of course, if you're out with sketchy dates all the time, and your taste attracts you to people in whom you're worried about the potential effect that doing something like that might have, you may as well be pissing your money right into a drain, anyways, because your possibilities are limited to a range between no further dates and an expensive divorce. If you want to save some money, don't use dating as an attempt to satisfy your sexual urges for an extended period of time. It's certainly one of the more clear examples of the validity of the 'quality over quantity' maxim.

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Originally posted by DJ-Kreing^^ one of the things that makes a date romantic for a woman is the fact that she is doing NOTHING to make it romantic. This is all you.

Still, don't pull out all the stops right away. That definitely goes a long way later on, though, when it's not expected. Nevertheless, you're spot on.

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I'm not into the kind of woman who thinks that being passive or coy about what she wants is "romantic" or a good model for dating.

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Originally posted by inconspicuous Regarding paying, maybe it's pointlessly old-fashioned, but you're supposed to be paying for everything. Period.

yay for sexual equality in this day and age

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Originally posted by jdat you need a pregame either drinks or mini golf then restaurant. Subway mcd's and the likes are good for first dates. Don't want to spend too much on something when you don't know if it will be a long lasting investement ( aka more guaranteed dates with the person ). avoid the movie thing. It's expensive and chances are you'll both like different types of movies. Go to an open mic bar or karaoke party. Try to both sing the silliest songs ever make it a mini contest. If you feel your broad is drunk enough for you to shag her seize the day! Take her home, the car or bench park can also subsitute fairly well. Remember it's a first date and trust isn't there quite yet so make sure you double wrap the johnny!

yeah the open mic places gets girls in the mood. A beer or two can't hurt also. . Plus for fun they got the 50 cent bar games you can play together, the naked pic game is fun. ope she don't pick a guy though

when I started going out with my GF of 3 years in college, I would swipe my card for her@ the dinning hall in the beginning. She would be lucky if I paid for desert . Now its like if I am paying alot for a date with her I better get my money's worth and she just pays the tip. Sounds fair. I'm talking about restaurants!!!

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ATB -Let u go
Iio - Rapture(riva edit)
Dj Encore - I see right through you
Lasgo - something

The best vocal tunes on LI RIP(2001-2002)

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Did this date go down yet? How did you mess it up? Did she go to the washroom every 5 minutes?