BEST thing to do is get BUSY. make plans with your buddies...go out to clubs, bars whatever and try meeting new people and talk to lots of other girls. go to the gym, take kickboxing classes, build a little fort in your room, whatever just dont dwell on it. AND RESIST the temptation to call or email or anything. if you need to find a buddy who can keep check on you and make sure you dont cave in then do it. eventually it will fade but how long that takes is entirely up to how much you were invested emotionally into the relationship.

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quit my job & move to Iran to become a dictator for a while

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel seeing this come from you denys is just wierd. on topic: i just party hard and try to keep my mind off of things. it doesnt really work but its better than nothing. it somewhat temporarily gets it off my mind but not fully.

it's only happened twice. once after freshman year in college and once this past summer. ... and frankly those were my only two "serious" relationships

lesson is - denys shouldn't get into serious relationships cuz he's too arrogant to treat a bitch right.

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Originally posted by lücid ...like, the talking muffin joke

I was reading this thread and I was all serious until I read this post, and the mere mention of that made me burst out laughing.

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My recipe was always pills (mostly pharmaceutical), beer, tequila, rum, pot, cigarettes and a generally apathetic demeanor - blend together until smooth, enjoy for 10-48 hours. Crash. Rinse. Repeat as necessary (2-6 months depending on relationship "relapses" fucking things up again for a while.)

It wasn't pretty, but it worked.

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Spent my time day in and day out with my girlfriends for several weeks, and then found a rebound.

Oh... and I drank a lot.

Like. A LOT... a lot.

drank a ton, worked out a ton.

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> S u s h i p u n k . P h o t o g r a p h y <

You know, it seems weird to me to read about guys "suffering" from break ups. I guess I just never really realized that guys take it hard too... they just show it differently/not so obviously.

With a girl... she cries and whines and tells everyone about it.

Guys don't say a word, just drink a lot, and probably cry in bed at night ( ) but you can never really tell that it is directly related to the break up or not.

Can't any of you deal with a break up with no substances?

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Originally posted by RJT My recipe was always pills (mostly pharmaceutical), beer, tequila, rum, pot, cigarettes and a generally apathetic demeanor - blend together until smooth, enjoy for 10-48 hours. Crash. Rinse. Repeat as necessary (2-6 months depending on relationship "relapses" fucking things up again for a while.) It wasn't pretty, but it worked.

this is why i love you.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Can't any of you deal with a break up with no substances?

Do you really need to ask?

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3 pages and no "dont send teh letter" remarks wow i for one am shocked