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I think that you would do well to consider the fact that not everybody has the same family values as you. Of course I am stating the obvious, but just because you can hypothetically put yourself in what you believe to be her position and say that you would be happy knowing you had a long-lost older sister out there somewhere doesn't necessarily mean that she would be happy knowing that or knowing you, for that matter.
I am not saying that she will be happy or unhappy or anything - I don't really know anything about this at all. Just consider the fact that this could bring a lot of heartache to people and might drudge up a lot of bad memories that people would rather forget. These sorts of things certainly have the possibility to end well, but consider how sensitive people are sometimes.
And don't get me wrong, I don't think that you should just avoid confrontation entirely, or even at all - I think that you really should try to contact her. Just be prepared for whatever consequences occur, is all I am saying.
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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
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