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Originally posted by Spin Laden I'm surprised no one here's mentioned popping an 'e'. You'll be asking girls out (with your shirt off) in no time

Sadly, that did help me a lot too.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by malek if I had lost 140 pounds in one year, I would be swimming in confidence... its so hard loosing weight that approaching girls seem trivial.

true story!!

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I gained 50 lbs in one year and that gave me more confidence or maybe it was because of all the beer I drank in first year of post-secondary :S Yeah that must be it...

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Originally posted by Invasionmix I gained 50 lbs in one year and that gave me more confidence or maybe it was because of all the beer I drank in first year of post-secondary :S Yeah that must be it...

Hehe i have ATLEAST 50 lbs sitting in my prised beer belly!

not worth the effort to lose it. im proud of my beer belly. ive embraced it and like the character she gives me

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This has to be a joke thread?

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Originally posted by Invasionmix I gained 50 lbs in one year

I'd gladly take 50 pounds as well

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Originally posted by DaRoZa Once you simply realize that a lot of them out there want the cack, you'll have moved on. they also have drugs out there for confidence...

Haha! Awesome post.

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Originally posted by afterhrsgurl ya so he can look like this if the girl's sobber she'll be like wtf! lol

hahah!

When I lost a lot of weight, I regained a lot of confidence. Shaving my head and getting porcelain veneers also helped metamorphosise the new me. I found my home at the Guv years ago, because it was the first club I ever went to where everyone faced the DJ, so I was able to dance alone without any pressure to dance with any girl. Friendships and relationship actually have developped over time for me. It was my first step out into the social world after about 2 years of staying at home all the time and introverted.

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Originally posted by thesauce23 umm dude, its not a problem. its called low self-esteem, self-confidence. everyone experiences that at one time or another. its just ur mind being fear's bitch. my advice- be yourself- trust in who you are. things will fall in place naturally

Bingo.

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Try the Escorts section in the yellow pages, or Craigslist.

kthxbye.

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Originally posted by Spin Laden I'm surprised no one here's mentioned popping an 'e'. You'll be asking girls out (with your shirt off) in no time

Is it just me or does anyone else not really feel like talking to people after popping some pills? All I wanna do is dance my ass off and be left alone. And when I do talk to other people its just simple words like "YEAH", and "Thats durtee".

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Originally posted by limpboy I am 19 years old, and I was overweight for the past 18 years of my life, I lost about 140 pounds last year. Now that you know my story, my truth is that When it comes to finding a girlfriend...I suck big time, everytime I see a girl I am attracted too I dont get nervous, I just know that there is no way she will be ever be my girlfriend, so I dont even try, and when I do try I start getting nervous, its like a loser-cycle am having. this is my Honest Truth, and I would like any advice anyone can give me, but if you dont have something nice to say, please dont say it.

Congrats on the weight loss. Wrt the "finding a girlfriend" thing someone mentioned to stop looking for that and they're 100% right. That should never be your goal. If anything, getting stuck in a relationship should be something to avoid like the plague. Unfortunately it happens from time to time but just make sure shes worth it. For now I would just try to go out have fun and enjoy the new you. Start liking yourself more and you'll see others will start doing the same, including women.

P.S. if pills make you unsociable like me than probably best not to do them if you're trying to meet girls.

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