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Originally posted by tubularbills is it possible to have attachment in the sense that you only have one "friend w/ benefit" ? without it being a relationship?

clearly you do not understand what a friend with benefits mean

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

Let me clue you in. For MOST girls, you fucking and making dinner for only ONE girl = "maybe he likes me... I think he likes me. He's just confused when he says he doesn't want a relationship. I can fix that!"

Which is why FWB can't go past a couple of fuck sessions, or you run into "feelings" territory.

It's kind of like, if you fucked Theresa. By fuck two, she'd be calling you her boyfriend.

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Originally posted by Yohan clearly you do not understand what a friend with benefits mean

oh god

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Originally posted by tubularbills and that's what makes you a whore, my good friend Jenny. does sex with someone you know always have to mean "something", however? can't it just be a way to satisfy some of those needs on maslow's hierarchy of needs? (i'm thinking physical needs, not emotional) is it so much to ask to fuck and then watch Sopranos? i mean, you're a chick---if a guy fucks you do you automatically think that he wants you as more than just a benefit? lol, its funny that you mention alcohol; because the first two times we hung out was around booze. but neither of us were really drunk. one of the first things i mentioned when we met too was that i was leaving in a few months....so a relationship wasn't possible...was just looking for a cool friend to hang out with. then we fucked. and then we fucked again. since then its been a mixture of hanging out (we cooked vodka sauce the other night); and fucking. except last night i got "the conversation" about "are we still on the same wave-length?" (like cmay mentioned) admittedly, i do have a little bit of a crush. that sounds so juvienelle, but its just that....like infatuation, not like, "omg i wanna spend the rest of my life with you" type of scenario. ugh.

lol maslow's pyramid

PS being FWB and making dinner for only ONE person and spending all that time with them = dating.

FWB = fucking one person while dating others because others won't put out. Or even if they do, just to get more pussy on the side. No dinners, no "talks".

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Originally posted by squirrelly Let me clue you in. For MOST girls, you fucking and making dinner for only ONE girl = "maybe he likes me... I think he likes me. He's just confused when he says he doesn't want a relationship. I can fix that!" Which is why FWB can't go past a couple of fuck sessions, or you run into "feelings" territory. It's kind of like, if you fucked Theresa. By fuck two, she'd be calling you her boyfriend.

LOL ok that made me laugh, thank you. i needed that.

i get what you mean, tho. i just guess i've been naive.

down in new orleans it was always just about a one-night stand, random fuck (safely, of course). but up here, its like...well...we're both still in town....soo.....i'm hungry...and i want sex....so why not kill two birds w/ one stone?

but i see what you mean.

its just weird that I'M the person that i guess deep-down subconsciously is getting attached. cause usually that doesn't happen.

then again its been awhile since i've had any long-lasting relationship. and even that wasn't really "long-lasting".

ugh.

ps, lol@ mikey mike's comment. of all the fucking assclowns on this board, i'd pick him to actually listen to shit i have to say, then come up with some "witty" remark. bravo, assface, bravo

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Originally posted by squirrelly No dinners, no "talks".

?

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel lol maslow's pyramid

lol at first i almost said "pavlov" and then i was like, "wait a fucking second, that was the dude w/ dog"

easy solution. fuck someone else.

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Originally posted by squirrelly easy solution. fuck someone else.

or don't fuck at all, since poor william seems too emo to be going around fucking random broads

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

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Originally posted by Yohan or don't fuck at all, since poor william seems too emo to be going around fucking random broads

i wasn't that emo down in new orleans tho. then again it was the mind-set of being in a different city, and never seeing that person again.

different feelings i guess when you're on your own turf.

ugh. i'm a mess

Will, ONE NIGHT STAND & FWB do NOT equal the same thing.

You fucked a whore in New Orleans and didn't talk to her again. THAT is a one night stand.

You're fucking some girl on occasion but actually dating other people, THAT is a FWB.

You're fucking the same girl and not dating anyone else and making her dinner, THAT is dating.