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Originally posted by tiesto14 see i dont agree...i feel that marriage is sacred...and u cant just put it behind u....i know its EXREMELEY hard to be with someone FOREVER and remain good friends aswell as lovers....its very hard...i guess i am jus dreaming of a life with a women that i will grow to love more and more each and everyday....i really do have dreams abotu that...look at my SIG..."I SLEEP TO DREAM"

I am not saying that marriage isn't sacred but I really think you can have a relationship of that level without being married. But as you know, many people get married who are abviously not as committed as that.

have patience, you'll find the right one.

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well we are close...i am in NYC your in Jersey...LOL......we are both looking and we both love trance....LoL....lets give it a shot

yeah maybe we'll meet up at PVD or something.

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Originally posted by Damo i haven't been hurt really at all.... i know i seem defensive but i have witnessed a lot of bullshit in marriages from my own parents and other families around me to realize that marriage isn't the way for me to go.... it just doesn't suit me.... i don't think it really suits any human when you think about it...love fades faster then you'd think... then you're stuck in pure monotonous, a dead end job, no ambition, no fun save for your few hours of respite from your needy family,and the only way out is a bullet to your dome....

ya'll are so jaded...

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honestly...if i busted my ass and prooved to her that i am NOW worthy of her love....which i so desire..then i guess after that i might have a slight chance..but doubtful...VERY doubtful

Think about it is 2012 now and imagine that you didn't find the right one until then.
Would you regret having not tried everything to get back the love of your life in the year 2002 ?

Do you fear to loose her as a good friend if you try it ?
I think you are seriously thinkinh about getting her back...why would you have written all the stuff about in this post at the beginning...

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Originally posted by tiesto14 honestly...if i busted my ass and prooved to her that i am NOW worthy of her love....which i so desire..then i guess after that i might have a slight chance..but doubtful...VERY doubtful

You sound like a wanker. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and live your life without regrets. The timing wasn't right for your ex, but don't go back to her, because you cant find someone else. That is the wrong reason. Just let everything happen naturally. Here's a hint, it will happen when you least expect it. Don't try to force love, let it find you.

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Originally posted by Orbax I merely pity those who cannot truly love. I have friends that I love and have loved for 15 years, and it isnt sexual in the least bit. Love is merely always wanting the best for that person even if you have to sacrifice. It isnt a burning in your gonads where the only way to quench the fire is in the juices of the other (ha that vivid enough for you?). Its a selfless relationship where their needs come before yours, and when you have two people doing the best thing for eachother, thats love. It takes, trust, respect, lots of other stuff, but thats basically what it boils down to.

i agree with u Orbax.

tiesto14, yeah looks like u did fuck up. that's shitty, looks like you had it good too. well i wouldn't try too hard to get her back...i mean maybe try hard but if she refuses dont ever try again, maybe things are not meant to be.

btw. i'm only 22, and have plenty of time to get married. i'll tell you though, that if i found a girl that was "perfect" in my mind, and all went great....for some time...i'd prolly wanna settle down....but doubt that will happen anytime soon...and i'm not in a hurry....(cant get married yet....next fall i'll be living in a pimp apartment in the heart of sororities and frat houses at my University....think of all the girls there no, no marriage yet

>JM<

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i jus emailed her said i was sorry for not beleiving her when she said i would never find another girl like her...i cant wait to see if she replys

has she written back yet?!?

im drunk desgrad me disrfg disg disregard me

tiesto it wasn't meant to be...plain and simple...and answer this question honestly...did u love her and u just want her back because of what she DID for u?? i dunno about u but i dont like people who are so eager to please like that constantly..u tend to take them for granted more easily and not respect them as much. where is the fun in someone who is going to drop and roll over every time you snap your fingers?? it IS somewhat of a sad story but PLEASE do not get scared that u will never find love again or a girl like her...the worst thing u can do is dwell on your past and live ur life full of regrets. you will be fine and your angel will pop up when u least expect it

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone