nope.

apart from your typical overpopulation/world is totally messed up reasons, i've never really seen them in my future. i don't want that amount of responsibility, nor do i want to be pregnant for 9 months, go through excruciating labour (i think it was the video in grade 11 biology that freaked me out), then have to take care/worry about the child for the rest of its life, not to mention the expense involved. i also worry that i'd be a crap parent or that i'd end up with some little monster. i fully admit i'm also too selfish, but at least i'm honest about it. that's awesome that other people want children and i like my friend's children and my neices and nephews --- i'm not some child-hating monster. they're just not for me.

and you know what i really find offensive? when people find out and they say "oh, when you settle down you'll change your mind" because you can't possibly not want children in this world! you never know, maybe i will, but i find it really obnoxious when people say that.

i think i'll just get a puppy instead.

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Originally posted by Skipper Huh? The purpose is to enjoy your life while you're living it. That may or may not involve kids. We have a massive population problem on this planet and there is no dire need for every person to spew out more kids...I'd argue procreation is actually detrimental to the planet at this point. However, I do want kids. I just don't see myself getting my life in order until my mid-30's to be able to do so.

You would not have a life to enjoy if it weren't for procreation...

And the population issues are because some people have too many kids probably due to ignorance...

I will agree that having kids in you 30's is ideal...

When you have kids at an early age, I feel that you haven't experienced enough in life to pass any real knowledge on to your kids...

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Originally posted by chinamon chinamon is INCH MOAN. LOL so fitting.

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Originally posted by nadezhda nope. apart from your typical overpopulation/world is totally messed up reasons, i've never really seen them in my future. i don't want that amount of responsibility, nor do i want to be pregnant for 9 months, go through excruciating labour (i think it was the video in grade 11 biology that freaked me out), then have to take care/worry about the child for the rest of its life, not to mention the expense involved. i also worry that i'd be a crap parent or that i'd end up with some little monster. i fully admit i'm also too selfish, but at least i'm honest about it. that's awesome that other people want children and i like my friend's children and my neices and nephews --- i'm not some child-hating monster. they're just not for me. and you know what i really find offensive? when people find out and they say "oh, when you settle down you'll change your mind" because you can't possibly not want children in this world! you never know, maybe i will, but i find it really obnoxious when people say that. i think i'll just get a puppy instead.

LOL...



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Originally posted by chinamon chinamon is INCH MOAN. LOL so fitting.

normally i love kids, but dealing with 16-18yr old teens right now, they are slowly beginning to get on my nerves.

too much me me me, stupid sense of entitlement and overall cluelessness to how the real world works. so far, very few have an idea that they are responsible for their own actions

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

I plan to have lots of kids. You can get like $5000 a head for those from the sweatshops.

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Originally posted by Djsketchbag I know that a child is behavior is based on the way it's parents raised it and that each child is different. I was such a good little kid when i was younger and i was sooooooooooo loved, i was an only child and the first in the fmaily. But in all honesty little kids have bugged the living _ _ _ _ out of me all my life i could never stand them. And if i feel i won't give my child the same devoition and love i was given by my family i don't think its fair for the child I'm not being selfish i'm putting myself in that childs shoes although a lot of girls who know me tell me i would be a wikkid dad

that is exactly how i feel about it. My parents were absolutely amazing. At times, i was such a brat! selfish, rude, didn't follow their rules. It was only after i moved out on my own....as i think it is for most kids...that i realized that they weren't horrible people out to make my life miserable, that everything they did was for me, to make my life as good as it could be. I don't think i could ever be as good of a mom, as my mom was to me. I am still fairly selfish, and am still trying to figure out my path in life. I 100% know i'm not ready to have kids, and may never be. And i would also want to give my kids the love, devotion, and financial security etc.. that my parents gave me growing up. I am nowhere near ready to do that. I'm not even sure how i feel about bringing kids into this world, in the state that it's currently in. Especially with global warming...not knowing what the outcome will be 10+ years from now. Plus this planet is already overpopulated to begin with....aren't we doing right by NOT having kids?

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Originally posted by DigiNut I plan to have lots of kids. You can get like $5000 a head for those from the sweatshops.

You would get more money for them in the blackmarket for organs.

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I love the idea of having kids one day. I'm not ready to now and my girl is WAY too young to consider it, but one day I do look forward to having children. I think my lifestyle right now wouldn't be right and I still have a lot of goals to come first. I would also want to make sure my life and partner were as stable as possible. I also think in todays world, you really have to prepare for a child and make sure that your going to be ready (as much as it's possible at least). I see to many people have a kid for the hell of it, or rush into to save a relationship or something. Choosing not to have a child isn't selfish, too many people DO have kids becasue THEY'RE selfish.

I also beleive that as much as everyone thinks they know what they want, thinks change over time and ESPECIALLY once you have a child. No one really knows how that will change they're outlook on life till it actaully happens...

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dealing with a teenager has to be one of the most horrible things on this planet..it makes you feel like your purpose in life was to have this selfish, self serving, egotistical creature treat you like shit but still expect you to jump at their every whim and demand...being the parent of a teenager is a thankless job..

fucking hate teenagers...

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Originally posted by cammaxwell I love the idea of having kids one day. I'm not ready to now and my girl is WAY too young to consider it, but one day I do look forward to having children. I think my lifestyle right now wouldn't be right and I still have a lot of goals to come first. I would also want to make sure my life and partner were as stable as possible. I also think in todays world, you really have to prepare for a child and make sure that your going to be ready (as much as it's possible at least). I see to many people have a kid for the hell of it, or rush into to save a relationship or something. Choosing not to have a child isn't selfish, too many people DO have kids becasue THEY'RE selfish. I also beleive that as much as everyone thinks they know what they want, thinks change over time and ESPECIALLY once you have a child. No one really knows how that will change they're outlook on life till it actaully happens...

Very very well said....

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Originally posted by chinamon chinamon is INCH MOAN. LOL so fitting.

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Originally posted by gummybear dealing with a teenager has to be one of the most horrible things on this planet..it makes you feel like your purpose in life was to have this selfish, self serving, egotistical creature treat you like shit but still expect you to jump at their every whim and demand...being the parent of a teenager is a thankless job.. fucking hate teenagers...

and you were born adult? ?

everyone goes thru that phase... its like for newborns having colic !!! hell i tell you

I can tell you this, now i can respect my parents even more for all the crap they went thru raising me and enduring it... and they raised 4!!! I can barely imagine doing the same only after one.

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