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Originally posted by jennypie Holy fuck shut up Yukii, you don't even suck your bf's dick. You deserve to get beat, imo.

that being said, do we all agree that a few playful whacks of rigid cock on the forehead during oral is not abuse?

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Originally posted by Dervish From the cases I've seen it's the other way round. Really a women getting beaten up/abused basically gets the moral outrage of the community (and they know people will support her if she outs him). Where as a guy, is he going to tell anyone? If he did would he get supported or mocked? (hence why I think it's less noticed) Plus if she hits him and he hits her back........ who is the big bad abuser? You know that the guy is going to get raked over the coals for "hitting a poor women". And thats always a factor with decent guys, women know they can hit you without getting hit back. People will even sometimes just see it as an independent strong women "teaching the man right". The double standards are bullshit.

That's sort of what I'm getting at though. It's always "Oh poor woman!" Which, imo, only validates them as victims. Which is fucking stupid.

lmfao, i don't believe women or men should get beat for any reason at all. ok so calm down.

but ffs, if the woman is staying in a relationship where there is any kind of abuse, then im sorry she's a dumb bitch & doesn't know how to respect herself.

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Originally posted by elFreak why would you understand going back after a drunken blowout? adults don't use being drunk as an excuse for their actions. if it happens once, it will happen again end of story. bitch needs to have some self worth and not accept that treatment no matter what sorry.

true. i just know that shit happens and alcohol can bring out some nasty sides in people that are otherwise controlled when sober. so if a guy gets cranky and abusive when he drinks, then he needs to stop drinking and go to counselling. if he makes a big effort like that and promises it'll never happen again, then i'd stick with him through counselling and stuff. obviously if i don't see any changes, i'd peace out.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by yukii lmfao, i don't believe women or men should get beat for any reason at all.

Unless they don't suck dick.

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there's nothing wrong with an open hand slap to the face when the bitch gets crazy.

that's my irrelevant statement.

Yeah I understand, it's complex. Think freak is right though, to an extent, happens once and gets let off... it'll happen again.

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if the guy gets cranky and abusive when he drinks, it means it is in his character.

fuck counseling, fixer uppers are better left for losers like krypton.

why be with someone unless they are everything you want in a person. Life is too short to waste with fucking losers that have issues.

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Originally posted by BTG there's nothing wrong with an open hand slap to the face when the bitch gets crazy. that's my irrelevant statement.

One girl actually begged me to do that to her hahaha.

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Originally posted by elFreak if the guy gets cranky and abusive when he drinks, it means it is in his character. fuck counseling, fixer uppers are better left for losers like krypton. why be with someone unless they are everything you want in a person. Life is too short to waste with fucking losers that have issues.

yea i know you're right. i'm glad i figured that out in my earlier 20s lol

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

abuse during sex play = ok as long as the safe word is not "harder" imo.

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Originally posted by bas Unless they don't suck dick.

She was probably choked... that gagging...

lol damn money i coulda been saving with geico, its been following me for many a thread now!

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