you're probably just too nice
or you want to be played by guys......and in denial of it hah

wouldn't you rather be getting something than nothing?

It's all about timing: don't be too fast (but there's no need to be too slow). Usually, when relationships don't work, both people are guilty. Focus on yourself and don't hang out with any bloke for a while... look deep inside of you: what am I doing wrong? Maybe that's all about your choices, maybe that's all about your behaviour... it's up to you to find out about it!

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Originally posted by trance_babe I keep on getting messed about by guys i go out with they either use me or just mess me around........how can i stop this?! Is there such thing as a decent guy?!

now,
i am not trying to cast aspersions at anyone or their lifestyle or choices they have made,

but i know a couple of guys that mess around alot with women. Mostly within the first couple of time they meet. These guys move on, the girl see me in a bar, they ask "why doesn't so & so like me anymore" well the answer i try to get across to them is.....

MOST of the time men dont respect women who they sleep with the first couple of times they meet. A guys logic is such that how could he respect & date a girl that he shagged when they first met? How does he know that she has not done that with X number of other guys.

guys like girls to sleep with them as soon as possible, BUT they want they gfriend to be less tainted.

at least that is my opinion.
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try joining clubs or getting hobbies where you can go and mix with others that share the same interest as you. if there are cute guys there, then you automatically share a common interest and then you can get to know him better.

i feel that it is hard to meet and seriously date someone you met at a club. My most serious gfriends, I met at work, through family & friends.


this has been my longest post. too bad it dont count towards my #'s.

good luck

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Originally posted by trance_babe I keep on getting messed about by guys i go out with they either use me or just mess me around........how can i stop this?! Is there such thing as a decent guy?!

Relationships are formed by two way communication, so "bad" guys don't find you by accident. Through our behaviour and attitudes we attract a certain type of person. I believe in an inside out approach. Come to terms with who you are and what's important to you, then act accordingly, the rest will fall into place.

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Originally posted by jploveparade We all learn when we get older.

truth.

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Originally posted by SoulSupply hey trance babae, im gonna let u in on a little secret, theres no such thing as a guy who isnt a prick, its just a matter of finding YOUR kind of prick. its all about finding someone who complements u, for some people its someone who's really like them, for others its someone whos a total opposite. and dont let guys walk all over u, if they think they can get away with shit, they'll push thet're luck with u. and above all be confident in urself!

I totally agree with you man.

girls are attracted to assholes.

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hmm...there may or may not be such a thing as a "decent guy", but the real question is, "is there any woman out there who actually wants a decent guy?"

Yeh me!
I don't want a mummy's boy, gotta have a bit of his own choices in him, but i dont want a total complete arsehole! I want a guy that isnt gonna mess me about but isnt too soft!
trance_babe

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Originally posted by trance_babe I don't want a mummy's boy, gotta have a bit of his own choices in him, but i dont want a total complete arsehole! I want a guy that isnt gonna mess me about but isnt too soft!

So it is true, good girls still fall for us "bad" boys. My faith in humanity has been restored. Woohoo!

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Originally posted by trance_babe I keep on getting messed about by guys i go out with they either use me or just mess me around........how can i stop this?! Is there such thing as a decent guy?!

hehe i was just wondering the same thing about girls hehe. poor trance babe... i feel your pain.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller hehe i was just wondering the same thing about girls hehe. poor trance babe... i feel your pain.

Aww!
I'm glad someone knows how i feel!