Nah if u have happy memories of him, keep them. Always good to look back on.

But if u had a big fall out, and u dislike him now, burn them, so then u cna move on.

But if they bring back happy memories then just keep them hun

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

Every other person on TA who has a life... can ask you ppl for adviCe about love.. why can i not.. i doo have a life out side of TA thank you very much...

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

Put them all in a box and hide them away somewhere hard to get, like in the darkest corner of the loft or something. That way they wont be in yuor face all the time, and in a years time if you want to get rid of them you can, but at least you know they're there if you still want them.


and to certain other people... FREEDOM OF SPEECH DOESN'T ALSO GIVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NASTY THINGS. IF YOU'VE GOT NOTHING CONSTRUCTIVE TO SAY THEN DON'T BOTHER AT ALL BECAUSE NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR IT!

i.e. if Julie wants advice then either give it to her or don't open the thread in the first place. It's up to her if she wants to discuss her personal life on TA.

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Originally posted by Spad It's up to her if she wants to discuss her personal life on TA.

you have a point there actually

and i don´t see why anyone would bother about that...see the thing that bothers me....why talk about exes if you havre a current BF that´s also on the site?

oh and from what I´ve heard..she´s got about 1000000 people in her MSN list...isn´t that enough people to ask for advise?

lol...nice one julie..please get mad

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i love it how when 59 teenage angst filled threads on ta start up about "my 16 year old girlfriend just broke up with me! what do i do! i need her back!!!", everyone gives advice... yet this one gets bitched about? whatever.

anyways, my advice is to definitely get rid of them. the one person that really meant something to me over the years, i have like 3 rolls of film worth of pics of us, as well as a few other memorabilia things... ive kept them in a box for 2 years now, but i went back and looked at them and it just made me sad.. so i will be getting rid of all of it. i think its the only way to move on really. keeping things is just holding on longer.

first put gasoline on the letters, then set them on fire, then piss on them to put out the fire, then throw the ashes in a septic tank.

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Originally posted by Julie_Spyder Every other person on TA who has a life...

count me out

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Originally posted by Julie_Spyder i doo have a life out side of TA thank you very much...

i wish i could say the same

btw, the *real* memories are not those on paper or wherever, they are in your head. but i have nothing against letters or pictures, in fact, i think... (damn, i forgot what i was gonna say) allright, i'm just positive about pictures and letters and etc., but i just like the thought that the *real* memories are in your head... damnit, i talk too much...

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From now on, i refuse to share anything more about my personal life and who i date. Sorry!....should have done that in the beginning and ppl, for gosh sake's, STOP PMING HER about who she dated and whatever, it's honestly NONE of yer business

that's what happens when you date a popular girl

*edit*

From this moment on I'm available for a good beating.
I tied myself to a wooden cross and handed out some tomatoes and eggs to the audience.

You may get something to throw with aswell

You have exactly one hour to hit me, then the cross and chains will vanish and I'll go back to my dark corner over there...


you see....I didn't know the thing I was talking about was already past history.



TAKE A SHOT!!!!!!!!

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Last edited by Miss Proximus on Aug-07-2002 at 18:42

quote:

Originally posted by smcmulli first put gasoline on the letters, then set them on fire, then piss on them to put out the fire, then throw the ashes in a septic tank.

werd mr.jynx.

julie take the advice and leave it at that...whatever you feel is suitable to deal with your situation so be it. alot of drama for no reason julz...the box idea is a good thing, take it and move on girlie. in the end, time will be the ultimate healer, it'll be ok hehe hope i helped, if not proxi can fend for me ~a HA!

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