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i've had both positive and negative experiences giving to panhandlers/beggars. recently, they've been more negative.
late one night, after a party at ruby skye and then being at a nearby diner, was walking back to hotel with some friends and we were accosted by a bum. it was late, i was tired, and didn't want to deal with it. my friend gave him a few singles and then less than a minute later we saw the guy pull his BLACKBERRY out of his pocket to return to a conversation.
even more recently, some friends and i were heading down to atlantic city for a friends bday. my friend wanted to pick up some drogas and we were waiting for this dude to sell us the stuff outside the bar he worked at. obviously a kind of sketchy situation in a sketchy town. suddenly this wildly overweight black lady knocks on the window and gave us a sob story about her car running out of gas and needing money for gas to get home. we didn't believe a fuckin' word she said, but wanted her to go away from the god damn car so we could do our business and leave. my friend gave her a 5. she walked across the street into the bar, instantly...........
i think the most fulfilling experience for me with a bum took place about a year ago. 2 friends and i were at a ralphs, buying 40s to play edward-40-hands. we saw a bum outside who we recognized as being there often. i bought an extra 40 just in case he said anything. sure enough - "you guys got any spare change?" -"don't have any money man, sorry. but i have an extra 40 if you want it" that motha fucka was so happy. he took it and started walking away, grinning from ear to ear as though to say "mission accomplished"
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