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Originally posted by eXeTik So what do you expect to happen? do you actually think some girl will run on to you just for smiling at her...?! Talking is al good, I just hate those morons with the stupid pickup lines or the rude one's.

I need a smile from a girl to know if she likes me. I'm not walking to them like I'm the king of the world...
If you have eye contact then it won't be so hard to walk to a girl and have a talk with her.

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Originally posted by junis Girls: Do you actually like it when guy's act like this???????? I realy would like to know that! Opinions highly apreciated!!

I don't mind if a guy comes up and talks to me, but when they cant take no for an answer thats when it really shits me....
I find myself going to gay clubs just because i know that i wont have guys coming up 2 me and trying things and this doesnt mean that the girls will either, its just my preference ive had some real trouble with guys thinking that they can grab u, touch u and try things on u...
i now prefer to go clubbing with guys becoz i see them as protecting me from the others weird i know!!

An example: was @ a club 3 weeks ago and a guy came up 2 me n goes... how r u? im like fine... he then goes wats ur name, my response was jolz... he goes wheres ur boyfriend? im like look @ the decks
the dj wasnt my bf but there is no harm in lying to get rid of them... however he didnt leave me alone and i wasnt with my friends at this stage, i tried moving away but he kept following me and i hate to say this but a kandi raver saved me from this guy
he tried to kiss me n then the K. Raver seen me push away...it was a nasty situation... but yeah neways... i hate it when guys try 2 hit on u even tho they know that
1. u have a bf
2. ur not interested

thats just my beef

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Originally posted by smcmulli well, that was a lot of reading, and i must throw in, ah piss on it my opinion doesn't matter. HI JULIE!

HELLO .... smcmulli

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Originally posted by jennypie
Because you're a filthy WHORE!

Interesting topic. I hope you guys can help me out as well.

It always pisses me off when I start thinking that when I'm not around my g/f, other guys might want to get to know her, ask for her phone number, etc., etc., I just can't help it, I go mad at the thought!

The other day my girlfriend and I went to Atlantic City. She's a very beautiful girl, like a model, and every single guy on the street had to stare at her, or complement her on how beautiful she is, or flirt with her. That was really pissing me off! My mood dropped to an absolute zero. It just SUCKS, when you know that every other guy will hit on her!

About clubs... no offense but you're not very smart if you take your significant other to a club. I mean think about it, clubs are such a "meat-market" atmosphere, everyone is there to have a little fun, and the assumption is that everyone's single -- or at least wouldn't mind some grinding with a stranger Girls, if you're offended by this or don't want all the attention, then don't go there at all, because you're bound to draw the attention of some desperate guys wanting a "cheap thrill."

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Last edited by Eugene on Aug-11-2002 at 17:09

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Originally posted by eXeTik So what do you expect to happen? do you actually think some girl will run on to you just for smiling at her...?! Talking is al good, I just hate those morons with the stupid pickup lines or the rude one's.

if you were a booger, you'd be the first that i'll pick

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Originally posted by Eugene The other day my girlfriend and I went to Atlantic City. She's a very beautiful girl, like a model, and every single guy on the street had to stare at her, or complement her on how beautiful she is, or flirt with her. That was really pissing me off! My mood dropped to an absolute zero. It just SUCKS, when you know that every other guy will hit on her!

wow, that's exactly what i was talking in my first post!!! it's just so annoying! it does feel great for her, because she gets all that attention, but for us, guys, it's like awful. personally, in such cases, i'd usually feel kinda insecure and worthless, as if anytime i could lose the girl...

why do some men have to be such rude animals!?!?!

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Just as bad are women who don't come up and talk to good guys, then end up going out with an outgoing asshole, then complain about how there arn't any good guys out there!

good topic. guys like this are kinda a pet peeve of mine.

i think i have a warped perception on this, but i HATE meeting guys in a club (unless it is in a asexual way). i go to clubs to dance and hear music, not to pick up guys. i can meet men elsewhere. i don't mind if someone starts talking to me; a good conversation means a lot more to me than physical attraction - but they'd better do it when i am in the chillout room and not when i am trying to listen to a set! i admit that it is flattering to have a guy come up to up and start dancing because that is some indication that i am attractive to him. but i DO NOT like my space invaded when i am dancing and i can get hostile if that is not respected.

nice thread, i'm kinda shy when it comes to walking up to girls i do not know even if i have eye-contact!! she must be standing alone or else i won't have the balls to walk up to her!
what annoys me even more is when i'm with a couple of friends (girls) and were dancing and other guys are starting to push you away to dance very close to my friends!!! and then they just turn around and start dancing with me again but they don't know rejection if you shouted it in their ears!!

what was really funny: at Addiction (Ta party) proxi was sitting down and the side of the dancing area and she gets this beer- ??(mmmm carton to put your beer on??) from the bartender who says it is from this guy sitting at the bar. written on the thingy () was: don't i know you from some where, i'm horny!"
that guy was such an idiot he tried hitting on proxi earlier when antiphus was dancing right next to her!!

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This doesn't necessarily work for me, but this is how I feel the general concensus on guys walking up to chicks....

1. In general eye contact and smiling is good 1st. BUT you should lead it up and talk to her within a minute or so after she's reciprocated them. Girls (not all mind you) generally like guys that are not "afraid", in other words they like to see some self-confidence etc. NOT ARROGANCE which is what they normally get from these assholes going up. So yes it's important to not waste your time with just looks, but don't go overboard and just stride up and say "hey baby, you-me, NOW"....

2. I get (or think...) the same problem with my g/f cos she does modelling and is pretty sweet+hot looking. SO she looks an easy target (she's 17 too). When we're out together we get chicks and guys telling her she's hot (like discounts in clothes stores or whatever) and if this happens when I'm with her and can't bear to think about what it's like when she's alone, cos she does like some attention (she's not self-obssessed mind you, she's modest about her loks, but EVERYONE likes flattery/compliments....

the other thing which slightly annoys me about this is that I trust her, and she knows that, and says that I can trust her (we've been togehter for about 7 months) but the problem is..... when I met her, she was kind of with another guy.......that ended (it didn't really start, but he got a bit annoyed at her). So if I "stole" or whatevered her from another guy.....is it gonna happen to me???????
I still trust her, but it's annoying that I got that nag at the back of my mind when I know she's out.....grrrrr


hope this helped

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Originally posted by butterfly i admit that it is flattering to have a guy come up to up and start dancing because that is some indication that i am attractive to him.

These guys don't care how a girl looks! They just take every chance they have!!!!