Try not to stress so much Durafei. The 2year mark is a very important one in a relationship ...as w/ 1year ...but 2 even more. 1.5-2 years is usually the mark where you have to make a serious decision ...if you see the other person in your future. There's no point in making it drag on for more than 2 years unless there's a serious *possibility* of marriage... otherwise you're just wasting eachother's time (hey you're only young once, you have to date as many people as you can while you're lookin' your best hehe). One of her friends probably pushed her on a bit to make a decision. Find comfort in the fact it happened now, and not later. Some women/guys are stupid and they don't even make that decision until 3 or 4 or 5 years later ...your girl was smart in that sense ...think of all the time you saved. She made that decision at the right time, for both of you. Hopefully you spoiled her for all other guys though hehe. It's just too bad it came as such a surprise. I do believe in "the next one's always better" because you always see something in the other person that was missing in the first ...you have a better picture of what's right for you ...

g'luck, and always keep your guard up

Sorry to hear that, but remember .. Time is a healer.


Be thankful the girl was honest enough to tell you straight up and be brave enough to come out like that. She could have easily instead done somtehing worst...like cheat on you!! trust .. some of them dont give a shit. : , they are EVIL!


and it goes like...

Women, can't live without them ... can't shoot them.

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Originally posted by dEsidEL do some online gaming or throw a 48 hours LAN party.. i find blowing up shit on computer games takes the mind away from worries ... plus doing guy kinda things ie. LAN parties, with other guys iz good for you .. :]

ya, cuz LAN parties are such a guy thing

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH ya, cuz LAN parties are such a guy thing

ROFL!



but seriousl Iliya (Durafei) maybe she was just affraid of the commitment! I mean think about it some people just are. They think there are so many other people out there that I can meet! Why am I still with this person. I know it's a lame excuse for her but I think this was the reason behind it all!

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n. an old-school term for crack cocaine.
"Got some tech-house?" "Yeah, I'm your man for tech-house, Grandma."
http://thesurrealist.co.uk/slang.cgi?ref=tech-house

And Trancarmada wins the disturbing photo of the day award.

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Originally posted by TranceKitten LOL....For some reason I get the feeling that everyone here is hunting...is that so??

Not everyone... I guess I am of the rare ones that let them come to me, just like anything else in life.

I've been chasing too many things in life, and felt real bad (and went thru a lot of bad experiences) when I didn't "catch" what I was chasing, so I just figured - why bother? Let it come to me... and it's been great ever since!

(does this make any sense to anyone out there... or have I just gone fucken nuts?!)

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Keep it real, and stay single, always mingle...

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH ya, cuz LAN parties are such a guy thing

hey man could be worse ...

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Originally posted by skaborough fats And Trancarmada wins the disturbing photo of the day award.

ROFL! U KNOW U LIKE IT!

Oh and BTW that's:

TRANCEARMADA

NOT

Trancarmada

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n. an old-school term for crack cocaine.
"Got some tech-house?" "Yeah, I'm your man for tech-house, Grandma."
http://thesurrealist.co.uk/slang.cgi?ref=tech-house

I was listening to Riva - Time is the Healer (Hiver & Hammer Remix).....

"Move on, look to new horizons
Seek and you will find
Let go, you've been here for too long
Just follow the signs

Time is the healer
Love is the stranger
Put the hurt behind you
Break the chains that bind you
Time is the healer
Life is the teacher
Put the hurt behind you
Break the chains that bind you

Forgive, does it really matter?
Make a brand new start
Forget, could be for the better
Just follow your heart"

Regards

Hey man,
soon it'll get better. Nothing appens with no reason or by accident.. The more u'll try to get her back, the more pain she's gonna make for you. First couple of days vodyara might be really handy..
Every man went thru this, I guess now it's ur turn...

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Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no-one is watching...

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Originally posted by fantom Not everyone... I guess I am of the rare ones that let them come to me, just like anything else in life. I've been chasing too many things in life, and felt real bad (and went thru a lot of bad experiences) when I didn't "catch" what I was chasing, so I just figured - why bother? Let it come to me... and it's been great ever since! (does this make any sense to anyone out there... or have I just gone fucken nuts?!)

you've just gone nuts dude

Oh woman...
Yep it's kinda hard after a "unexpected" break. I can tell. Been with this girl for 8 years. But then one day...things fall apart.
I have to agree that life goes on. I still figure out how, but we all know that life goes on.

Time will do it's work, like it always does. Sit back, enjoy the time you are free and restless. I know, easier said then done...but you know I am right.

~greeTZ

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