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School has also taken me a lot longer than any regular person would spend on finishing it.
I used to be one of the smart kids in elementary school. I grasped everything quickly without doing much (or any) learning.
I've went to a homework place from my 15th to 17th, where I got a bit of tutoring. It helped me finish (and actually start) doing my homework as there were little to no distractions. A good stimulus was also that I could go home as soon as I had finished my homework. You were forced to commit in an ideal environment.
5 years of high school took me 7yrs. A 4 year bachelor took me 10 yrs. I can read books and after finishing them all the knowledge I tried to take in is lost unless I take proper notes. Underlining relevant text isn't sufficient. I was too distracted during the classes I didn't care for that things wouldn't sink in. When I finally got the chance to shape my graduation with custom courses (which did follow my interests) things got a whole lot easier. It took me 7 years to finish the first 2 years. Another 2 years For the 3rd year, and one for my graduation year. Also I let work come before education, I shouldn't have done that. Quitting my job and putting my own company on hold helped a lot. This (work) caused probably 75% of the delay. That said, for now, finishing my bachelor was probably my most stressful challenge up to date. School is not for me, and I guess most ADHD people learn by doing (or proper engaging storytelling in class) instead of being taught with books.
Here's another couple of things I came up with during writing this all down.
- Seperate specific tasks, don't multitask.
- Set a little alarm every 12 minutes or so to check if you aren't avoiding what you should actually be doing. It snaps you back to reality and reminds you to focus on what is at hand.
- If possible, do something you genuinely care about. It is so much easier. Although that might not be ADHD specific .
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Last edited by Storyteller on Jan-15-2015 at 07:52
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