If she's hot, you go up to her, introduce yourself, give her a compliment that has nothing to do with her body (excluding her eyes), talk for a few minutes, then end the conversation and leave to talk to someone else.

If she's hot, she'll be curious why you didnt say anything like the typical guy does complimenting her. And with her ego, she'll wonder why you didnt try to shmooze her longer. Then stop by to talk to her again later and she'll be trying to get you to stay longer cause now you have her intrigued.

There you go! Now everyone knows the secret.

Irish

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Originally posted by irish_4_you If she's hot, you go up to her, introduce yourself, give her a compliment that has nothing to do with her body (excluding her eyes), talk for a few minutes, then end the conversation and leave to talk to someone else. If she's hot, she'll be curious why you didnt say anything like the typical guy does complimenting her. And with her ego, she'll wonder why you didnt try to shmooze her longer. Then stop by to talk to her again later and she'll be trying to get you to stay longer cause now you have her intrigued. There you go! Now everyone knows the secret. Irish

u know...ive tried that approach..never did work....when ur physically unnactractive to the bone, it never works....and yes EVERYONE IS AT LEAST A BIT IF NOT VERY SUPERFICIAL.

so now i just say fuck it...women like me as a friend only and thats all they want with me, so thats life...i dont even bother about liking women anymore...always ends up in disaster with me all broken up hoping for something to happen and nothing ever does

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Originally posted by kirbtastic i just whip out my man junk .. either il get slapped .. or the girl is coming home with me .. 50% is good enough for me

yep, 50% is better than 0.....this a tried and proven method.... But in reality i never get a chance to meet girls anymore cept 2 times a week and thats when i work downtown...other than that i have deemed myself a music nerd i spend all my free time working in logic and programing synths not to mention guitar and piano...and going to college or trainspotting tracklist(which im just about out of, i may switch genres just to hear new music.) Oh and now i got a puppy which i gotta watch all the time too.

don't let her cute looks fool you she lives to tear shit up....

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Originally posted by irish_4_you *snip* ...now you have her intrigued. There you go! Now everyone knows the secret. Irish

aye. that IS the secret. what's better, being charming or mysterious?

it's not about saying compliments. compliments are just empty words. you have to be able to get the girl interested in you.

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Listen, listen. I'm about to give all of you some good tips for getting girls

1. Make her feel important. Listen to everything she says and respond with questions that would allow her to continue to talk. Ask her questions about her. People love to talk about themselves! And this definitely is the cure for uncomfortable silences

2. Use her name when you address her or talk to her. To them, their own name is the most beautiful word in the English language Don't just say "Hey", say "Hey Amy" for example. You'll definitely have her full attention if you do.

3. Smile, laugh when she laughs. Don't be fake though. Girls can smell bullshit.

4. Act like she's the reason you're having a good time doing what you're doing.

5. Make eye contact with her even when other girls are around. Especially her friends. This shows that you're attention is on her and whatever she's gonna say or do next. Look right in her eyes when you talk to her.

6. Be funny if you are funny. Don't force it.

7. Compliment her when appropriate. Girls looooove compliments. When you give a girl a compliment she'll think about it all day.

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no need to chase ..when u have a puppy ..they will come to u...find a nice outside spot at an outside pub on a busy a street and sit back and have the beav come to u...dont forget your foot mirrors though

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Originally posted by BeatFreak 2. Use her name when you address her or talk to her. To them, their own name is the most beautiful word in the English language Don't just say "Hey", say "Hey Amy" for example. You'll definitely have her full attention if you do.

jeez, i forgot when was the last time i was adressed by my name from my friends...

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I hate to say this but its true. You have to treat each girl differently for the most part depending on what they look like and how they dress. One of my favorite quotes..."I'm not shy. Just studying my prey." You have to have an idea of what method you need to use for each girl. If she is fairly attractive, you need to separate yourself from other men by making her intrigued. And that means doing something opposite all the other guys do. Like...if she is with a friend...talk to her friend more than her even if her friend is less attractive. Then work your attention towards the hot one. Its all about intrigue with the hot girls.

Then with the girls that actually have some character, then you do the charm. And use their name. And make a connection. Its all a game unfortunately. But never be fake. It may be a game because there's strategy for each girl...but you cant be fake.

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Originally posted by DJ Chrono I think you'll find this guide rather usefull. Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide I've read through most of it, and there are some very valuable tips and techniques in there.

dude, thanks for that link

some good readin'

gonna try that eye contact exercise @ work.
at least half the cashiers are hotties

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Last edited by Matt on Jan-06-2003 at 06:31