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There is a book I have called “The Truth About Love” written by a couple of doctors (psychs) and it made a ton of sense. It talked about how there is a huge misconception about true love among society and it’s mainly due to the media and its portrayal of love…in other words, people tend to think the “honeymoon phase” is the love part, but really, true love is when that dies down and that’s when u have to make the active decision to continue loving that person or not.
They also touched on the scientific part of the honeymoon phase and basically stated that all of our actions during the honeymoon phase are literally out of our control due to hormones. Then once they settle down, we start acting normal again and like ourselves.
Anyway my point is, it’s probably not so bad if u fuck someone on the first night and end up together in the long run because the longer you hold out on the sex part, the longer the fake “honeymoon phase” lasts lol when a girl holds out on sex, the guy’s main goal/focus is ultimately getting in her pants (for the MOST PART, not saying it’s always like that), so how is she going to know how he really feels in the beginning?
Lol
/stupid theory
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone |
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