16, no doubt a virgin, but we get horny all the time

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Originally posted by Sand Leaper Still a virgin at 20 due to a multitude of reasons. I think these are the main factors: * No friends at all left in this city * My looks are "just" OK, which means that all girls ever bother to talk to me for is to have a venting channel for their issues, so that they can go to other good looking guys who won't listen for everything else. After I refused to listen to their rantings anymore, they all fucked off. * Half the girls in this city won't have sex till marriage (and of course all the female friends I did get had to end up being those kind of people) * Got sick of the whole courting process after being rejected again and again cos I didn't look good enough and/or wasn't popular enough * Always been the odd one out where I live (different ethics and morals, different interests, different tastes etc.) * Dramatic shifts in my personality scared people away, since they no longer knew where they had me * And of course my overall moodiness and depressive tendencies aren't exactly the biggest girl magnet there is. So I'm stuck for now it seems. I hope something happens this summer or when I move to Oslo this autumn though.

that reallly sucks. go on extreme makeover. i used to be ugly. its called the ugly duckling stage. i think we all go through it once in our lives. when you have braces, acne, your skinny, and your voice cracks. but then, you start lifting weights, washing your face at night, the braces come off, and your voice finally matures.

i kind of have the same problem as you. a lot of girls like me, and i get lots of looks places i go, but no girl like, likes me. its just im something good to look at, but other than that, they wont even admit that they have a thing for me.

and what pisses me off, is the ugly girls. i fuc*in hate when one of them likes me. i think the ugly people should stick with the ugly people, and the beautiful people with the beautiful people.

PS. i want to go to Oslo. is it cold there?

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That's just your opinion, If a girl is "a nice catholic girl", your less likely to score some poontang

Yes but your more likely of getting a mature girl who will love you for who you are and not for how good you kiss or are in bed. sex is not all in life and when have the girls are sallow as they are in this world I dont wonder why there aer so many divorces each day....

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Originally posted by Electronicmaji Yes but your more likely of getting a mature girl who will love you for who you are and not for how good you kiss or are in bed. sex is not all in life and when have the girls are sallow as they are in this world I dont wonder why there aer so many divorces each day....

is it the same way in cambodia?? dont they have forced marraiges there?? a guy and girl get married after knowing each other for like a week...

EDIT: Is Cambodia communist?? i thought communist gov'ts dont allow the internet..

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Originally posted by Heinz is it the same way in cambodia?? dont they have forced marraiges there?? a guy and girl get married after knowing each other for like a week... EDIT: Is Cambodia communist?? i thought communist gov'ts dont allow the internet..

Cambodia =/= Colombia

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Originally posted by Heinz that reallly sucks. go on extreme makeover. i used to be ugly. its called the ugly duckling stage. i think we all go through it once in our lives. when you have braces, acne, your skinny, and your voice cracks. but then, you start lifting weights, washing your face at night, the braces come off, and your voice finally matures.

It's not that, I don't consider myself to be ugly at all, I've seen far more ugly people than me get girlfriends who I consider to be goodlooking. And no offense, but at 20 most of your pubertal appearance issues have worn off, well at least mine have

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i kind of have the same problem as you. a lot of girls like me, and i get lots of looks places i go, but no girl like, likes me. its just im something good to look at, but other than that, they wont even admit that they have a thing for me.

I know the feeling. I guess I'm another one of those who suffer from the well known nice guy-syndrome. I figured to do something bout that I'd start biting back and. And it worked, all the girls who want me as their vent have now fucked off. I'm still lonely though :/

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PS. i want to go to Oslo. is it cold there?

Depends what you define as cold. It can drop to like -8 or -10 degrees celsius at worst.

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sorry I dont live in Cambodia I dont know anything about prearranged marriages

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Originally posted by Sand Leaper I'll be @ Cube for Quivver this saturday, perhaps I'll see you there?

too bad for me you won't, since I'm still under 18

Oi, Leapa:

Having no friends left in Kristiansand is not actually a bad thing. You can use this time to withdraw a bit from social life and work on yourself for a LITTLE while. You said you had some mood changes and was often depressed, didn't you? Well, work on this. Do stuff you like. As for courting, it really depends on how you're doing it. If you look too desperate, doing far more than what the girl expects from blokes (remember girls are usually insecure and often have low self-steem), or if you're too slow, you're automatically out. Confidence is also the key: self-pitty will turn you into a cute boy, not in a potential lover.

Looks aren't that much important, as you know. All you need is to have that little something to make you different (ie: ever noticed girls fancy blokes who have the spotlight?). Impress her. I've had girls liking me because I speak many languages, because I play the saxophone, because I knew how to entertain them... ie, you can't be "just another one". You said you're the "odd" one, didn't you? This is the good part, all you need is to attract (good) attention to this peculiar side of yours. Most girls know I'm a lot into electronic music, and when I speak about it, I make it sound like the world's eigth wonder, and they seem to like the passionate feeling I have for it. Being well with yourself makes her well with her self, and once she's confortable, you're halfway through

Also, if you're looking for a girlfriend, as long as I've noticed, you're already wrong. This sort of thing is supposed to flow naturally (have you ever actually "looked for friends"?).

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Last edited by Lira on Mar-23-2004 at 16:59

I think he lives in Kristiansand, a bit further away from oslo. Speaking of that, I think I'll be going to quart this year btw

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Originally posted by noonboy I think he lives in Kristiansand, a bit further away from oslo. Speaking of that, I think I'll be going to quart this year btw

Oops, my bad

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