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Originally posted by Theresa I have faked orgasms just to end the gad damned thing. Like, he will want sex really badly, and I am soooo not in the mood, ie. I'm not feeling well, had bad day, just want to be left alone. But I will do it anyways, and so I will let him have his fun, play along, and then fake it so that he is satisfied. I know it sounds bad, but it's only to make him feel good, since that is my main concern. Sure, I try to get into it, but sometimes it's just impossible.

see i could understand that. but that is a problem with your mental state and not any kind of indication that the person you are with is unable to satisfy you which is what girls usually try and make it out to be...

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Originally posted by Theresa I have faked orgasms just to end the gad damned thing. Like, he will want sex really badly, and I am soooo not in the mood, ie. I'm not feeling well, had bad day, just want to be left alone. But I will do it anyways, and so I will let him have his fun, play along, and then fake it so that he is satisfied. I know it sounds bad, but it's only to make him feel good, since that is my main concern. Sure, I try to get into it, but sometimes it's just impossible.

lol exactly. that's when i have been guilty of it. not so much any more because i'm pretty persistant when i'm not in the mood. i just throw a bottle of ky and a playboy magazine at him and tell him to have fun....

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

No, 99% of the time, the reason why a woman cannot cum is because of a mental reason, not physical. Women are very psychologically involved when it comes to their sexual satisfaction.

If she cannot cum boys, don't think that it's because you can't do your job right, especially if you've done it right hundreds of times before, just remind yourself that she might be very stressed, tired, had a bad day, or whatever. That is why foreplay is so important, where a lot of guys lack talent. You need to make her feel special, relaxed and cared for before you go at it, or mentally she wont be prepared to cum, causing the fake orgasms, or the "I just can't cum today".

Women need to have their brains stimulated most. So most of the time, it has nothing to do with your pen0r, it is because you haven't tended well enough to her psychological side. I don't think men are aware of how important that is.

I'd rather masturbate than make my partner have unequal/unloving sex.

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yea u beat me to all that mental stuff theresa. i was just gonna say that. it's very rare for a female to just be able to "have sex" to get off...i, myself have to be very mentally stimulated, and even the slightest bit of stress or bad mood makes me not in the mood to have sex, and really hard to please.



the word of the day for this thread boys is FOREPLAY.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

See lots of guys are insensitive to that, so long as they are getting their wang off, they are happy. They forget that the woman needs to be loved, and taken care of, or whatever it is she needs in that situation.

It is so easy to tell what a woman really wants. We all have our different moods. Sometimes we want slow passionate love making, whereas other times, we want crazy monkey sex. You can tell by the way we act, and the way we talk. If we come home in a horrible mood or we just plainly had a shitty day and you know that, she probably needs some TLC. If she has had a good day, and she's frisky, and jumps you, then go at it like they do on the discovery channel.

"You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel."

Sorry couldn't help myself.

Anyway, my point was that you really need to work with the woman's brain if you truly want to satisfy her. If that's too much work for you, then yes, you are bad in bed.

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Originally posted by Theresa No, 99% of the time, the reason why a woman cannot cum is because of a mental reason, not physical. Women are very psychologically involved when it comes to their sexual satisfaction. If she cannot cum boys, don't think that it's because you can't do your job right, especially if you've done it right hundreds of times before, just remind yourself that she might be very stressed, tired, had a bad day, or whatever. That is why foreplay is so important, where a lot of guys lack talent. You need to make her feel special, relaxed and cared for before you go at it, or mentally she wont be prepared to cum, causing the fake orgasms, or the "I just can't cum today". Women need to have their brains stimulated most. So most of the time, it has nothing to do with your pen0r, it is because you haven't tended well enough to her psychological side. I don't think men are aware of how important that is.

i know exactly what you're saying and i've had a girl tell me they faked because they weren't in the mood...i don't care. and actually i've also had a girl that like to come home and have sex after a bad day because its a great release of stress...i like to think that i usually get the job down with the foreplay...but sometimes maybe you just can't breakdown that mental barrier.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I'd rather masturbate than make my partner have unequal/unloving sex.

see i agree completely....or i can just wait ya know. but the ladies need to be clear about whether they are in the mood and if they aren't because otherwise that's whats gonna happen...don't just play along...tell me sorry baby not tonight.

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Originally posted by Slylee it's very rare for a female to just be able to "have sex" to get off...

One of the girls I dated liked to have sex any time of the day, no matter when or where it was, foreplay was not necessary. I found out later, though, that she had a lot of psychological issues.

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Originally posted by UWM One of the girls I dated liked to have sex any time of the day, no matter when or where it was, foreplay was not necessary. I found out later, though, that she had a lot of psychological issues.

well lucky you hehehehe...not so lucky for psycho girl