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Originally posted by Moral Hazard If he's only looking for some ass then he'd be gone long before a month.... or he's already getting it elsewhere as Jamie suggests.

Thats fine, I don't want to waste my time with those kind of guys. If he gets it elsewhere, like I said, what do I care? Nothing is official between us.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes

My ex before the recent one was really cool about waiting... problem was I wanted him so badly he had to stop me from tearing his clothes off a few times.

I also hadn't had sex in a year-and-a-half when I dated him, so...

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Banora Thats fine, I don't want to waste my time with those kind of guys. If he gets it elsewhere, like I said, what do I care? Nothing is official between us.

Fair enough I suppose... I just don't get why you would deny yourself in favour of some (seemingly) arbitrary waiting period. Have you ever considered finding someone for some sort of ongoing casual relationship?

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

I lost it to a french-canadian who was pretty manipulative about it (i.e. "we have been together for a month, lets just do it")
He was an assistant prof at a school I went to in North quebec

we dated for 3 months and then broke up
we're still really good friends though, just didn't work as bf/gf

my boyfriend HATES him though
they almost got in a fist fight when he came down to visit me from Quebec last summer

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Originally posted by Slylee oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Have you ever considered finding someone for some sort of ongoing casual relationship?

Eh... nah. I would be weirded out by it. I like to have someone to be with if I am fucking them. I can't just spread my legs, let him go at it, then ignore him until I or he needs to get off again (not to mention I'd wonder how many other girls he was doing that with and would be all paranoid if a condom broke or something).

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

lol because if you like him, you DO care.

And "those kinds of guys" don't mean that they are bad guys. Actually, they're more honest if anything else. They let you know right away "hey, I don't know if we can work this out yet - but I think you're hot so lets have some fun while we're figuring it out" is better than some guy who is lying to you about your intentions and screwing around behind your back.

Newsflash though: if a guy has been single for a while, even if you're "starting" to date, he probably still has his FB for a little bit.

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Originally posted by Slylee there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes

pfft... that was like a standard operating procedure for me... I'd normally get her off (oral/digital) and then stop her when she went for my cock... usually apologizing for going too fast and suggesting we wait. It pretty much always resulted in some seriously hot fuckin' the next time I saw her... plus having her all hot an bothered imagining my cock increased the odds that she wouldn't laugh at it when she finally saw it.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by squirrelly "hey, I don't know if we can work this out yet - but I think you're hot so lets have some fun while we're figuring it out" Newsflash though: if a guy has been single for a while, even if you're "starting" to date, he probably still has his FB for a little bit.

Nah, I wouldn't trust him. And: Duh.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Slylee there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes

lol like two months into us dating he gave me this speech and was like "you can't just keep coming over, f*&^ing me, then leaving. If you come over - you stay the night." At first I thought he was a whiny girl, then he confessed that getting up in the middle of the night to lock the door after I left was a hassle

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Originally posted by Banora Nah, I wouldn't trust him. And: Duh.

lol but you'd trust the guy who you thought was "waiting"?

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Originally posted by squirrelly lol but you'd trust the guy who you thought was "waiting"?

I didn't say I wouldn't think he didn't have a FB, I would just hope as we got to know eachother he'd focus more on me once the sex started. If not I'll cut him out.

A guy who is flat out: 'I want your pussy and nothing else until I get to know you' is someone who I would think is just going to hit-it-and-quit-it with several girls at a time.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.