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| quote: | Originally posted by Magadansky
Read the serious (and the non-serious) part of the thread and wanted to share some thoughts about this seriously (aka back on topic):
So, first of all, I don't cheat nor I did cheat. If I am feeling that the relationship is going down, I just break up with the girl. But we still preserve some kind of relations. So far I had around 4 girls with who we had more than 4 months. But all these 4 girls were rather suspiscous (you know what I mean). I am pretty liberal so I dont care if the girl goes to a party or something like this without me (if I get the same in return ofc). It didnt bother me at all.
And now, as I already mentioned I am not with those girls anymore but we stay in touch from time to time. I made an experiment, invited them one after another to different parties I threw in my house and my idea was to see how they will react. All of those girls had new boyfriends and they came without them. As the parties were progressing I f*cked 3 out of those 4 girls. And I would probably do the 4th too if it wasnt one very strange circumstance.
What is the conclusion? Well, pretty obvious I think. I dont care now that they cheated on me, actually, I still invite them from time to time (I am single atm anyway). But the point is that this, at least for me, proved that those who cheated, will always cheat if they are just put in the so called "right circumstances" when they are.... "forced" to do it. It just doesnt, or at least its very hard to, change for those people.
P.S. Sorry for interrupting your drama! |
Good post.
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