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RJT
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I've always tried to be responsibly irresponsible. Sure, I've done loads of stupid shit - but one rule I've tried to hold myself to is that if I'm not 100% confident my head is in the right place, I don't drink or otherwise intoxicate myself. All it does is stress me out, make me feel more out of control, and triple whatever anxieties are running rampant in my brain.
I feel like to most of my closest friends, I've made this abundantly clear - so when one of them said "Come out tonight, we'll just relax, go get a beer and some dinner and catch up", I assumed that's what we'd be doing.
Being "surprised" with a ball, absurd amounts of booze, and a bunch of cracked out party kids who I'd never seen before was pretty disappointing. 
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Oct-11-2008 06:45
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Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam

Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
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| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
I've always tried to be responsibly irresponsible. Sure, I've done loads of stupid shit - but one rule I've tried to hold myself to is that if I'm not 100% confident my head is in the right place, I don't drink or otherwise intoxicate myself. All it does is stress me out, make me feel more out of control, and triple whatever anxieties are running rampant in my brain.
I feel like to most of my closest friends, I've made this abundantly clear - so when one of them said "Come out tonight, we'll just relax, go get a beer and some dinner and catch up", I assumed that's what we'd be doing.
Being "surprised" with a ball, absurd amounts of booze, and a bunch of cracked out party kids who I'd never seen before was pretty disappointing. |
Sounds weird.
How long since you'd seen this friend though? "Catching up" makes it sound like quite a while, perhaps. Is there a time in the past where that kind if 'surprise' might have fine/normal? Or just a case of a friend assuming he knows you better than he actually does?
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Oct-11-2008 07:02
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Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam

Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
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| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
Nah, good friend, and I don't know - I think I just caught him on a night where we were both on different pages.
Was just weird, I guess. To be honest, I'd say at this point almost all of my friends party far harder than I do (for the most part), and that in itself is just strange for me.
I was the kid who tried everything before while everyone else was on the honor roll and what-not in high school, very strange to see a lot of friends go through that phase at like 25-26. |
Maybe he didn't feel like hanging with the sketched out people either, and thought "Hey, I'll invite Rob along, so I'll actually have someone to talk to!" 
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