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This is the last thing i am going to say about it..
It was for the reason already mentioned, which yes i guess you can say aesthetics, but my husband also believes that it is more hygienic and also that it would prevent STD's. I used to believe that until i did some reading about it and from what i understand, there is no evidence to support such a thing. It may seem strange to a lot of people, i get that. But there are a lot of strange customs out there, especially when it comes to religion and geography. I have been married for almost 6 years now.. you are not going to agree on everything. You have to pick and choose your battles and this wasn't something i felt worth arguing about. My husband felt strongly that he was doing the right thing and that is why i support him. Raising kids is hard, you try and do the best you can, make the best choices, but it's impossible to be a perfect parent. My son is fine and if he wishes he had foreskin when he was older he can talk to his father about that. I hope when you guys get married and/or start having kids that you have a lot of support, because i can tell you first hand it is challenging to say the least. If you really believe it is barbaric and torture then you are suggesting i am a terrible parent, because what kind of parent would subject their baby to torture? That's why i take it personally. I am a good parent.. both my husband an i have put our lives on hold giving our kids the best life we can. I don't think anyone in their right mind could argue that. That being said, sorry for my previous outburst, i've had a shitty day.
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