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Originally posted by Provitex And please, if you're under 19 and dating guys 20+... I think it's you girls who arn't mature.

That's ridiculous. So you are saying an 18 year old with a 21 year old is bad? Three years is nothing at all! I don't think something magically changes once you hit 19 or 20. I think it is all based on the maturity levels of the two individuals.

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Originally posted by bettsy #cassiopeia Girls need to realize one thing and stop being naive (dont know if you belong in that category but here it goes). Usually when a guy is nice to you, being understanding and so on, he wants to get inside your pants. The difference between young and old men are that the later have more skills in the art of missleading girls. Of course, if you ask your boyfriend if this is the case, he will answere no. Well thats bullshit pretty much, although its sympathetic bullshit.

99.999% of the time: agreed

finding a genuinely nice guy is rare. guys can go on forever about how girls are bitches but men can be pure assholes too, a lot of them are users who just want one thing: BANG BANG BANG (my own brother being one of them )

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I think there isn't really a mathematical limit to what should be an acceptable difference and what not. People just should have good sense about it. The older you are, bigger age differences are supportable. Now about 25 dudes dating 17 years old or so, I think that's fucking wrong. Totally feel your pain dude.

Now talking a bit about myself and my personal situation adapted to the problem (I hope you don't mind, heh ): the possible solution is turn to younger girls too (not TOO young, again good sense comes in handy). I'm 17 and previously I used to go after girls with same age, or 1 year difference now I'm more after girls who are 14/15. They're not mature at all, apart for some rare exceptions, but they are expecting older dudes because they think they're mature . So, to sum it up, take advantage yourself too of the situation (but never on extreme situations like the ones you mentioned, that's just fucking wrong). It's like, you won't get the mature girl you want, but the world isn't perfect. Finding the girl of your dreams is something VERY hard these days.

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lol!!

No offense to anybody... ^^^^^^^

But, if you're a guy in the 18's (or 17's ) don't tell us you go for younger girls!! lol...seriously! Now THAT'S wrong! 14?!??!?!?? C'mon dude...!!





lol...anyways........omg, i'd kill myself the day I'm in university and I find myself dating a girl in highschool...Pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!

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Originally posted by Provitex lol!! No offense to anybody... ^^^^^^^ But, if you're a guy in the 18's (or 17's ) don't tell us you go for younger girls!! lol...seriously! Now THAT'S wrong! 14?!??!?!?? C'mon dude...!!

I won't take it as an offence

just that most 16/17 girls around here are dating older guys like 19,20.. and the ones that aren't dating older guys are just worthless anyway. Also being the kind of guy that hardly gets any chick doesn't help much.

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lol...anyways........omg, i'd kill myself the day I'm in university and I find myself dating a girl in highschool...Pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!

before I make any retarded comments about that quote, there in english countries you have highschool -> college -> university right?

btw, how old are you?

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English countries..lol!
ummm... You finish highschool at gr 12, (18 years old) and move on to either College, or University depending on what you wana do and/or your average in highschool.

I'm 18, and have never dated a younger girl

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here is why 18-21 is a HUGE jump while a 50 year old and a 53 year old would be totally fine

EXPERIENCES

Colleges, clubs, travels, number of people met, jobs, careers, loves, EVERYTHING. at that age so much shit is happening that in 1 year you are a different person. every year you change, grow, mature. at 35 you are probably pretty settled and been through the same shit most others have. stick to your age. for anyone under 21 your cap is 20. Dont date over 20. at 21 jumps to like 23.

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Originally posted by Orbax here is why 18-21 is a HUGE jump while a 50 year old and a 53 year old would be totally fine EXPERIENCES Colleges, clubs, travels, number of people met, jobs, careers, loves, EVERYTHING. at that age so much shit is happening that in 1 year you are a different person. every year you change, grow, mature. at 35 you are probably pretty settled and been through the same shit most others have. stick to your age. for anyone under 21 your cap is 20. Dont date over 20. at 21 jumps to like 23.

That's true...

Just like an infant with a 3 year old...

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Originally posted by Provitex English countries..lol! ummm... You finish highschool at gr 12, (18 years old) and move on to either College, or University depending on what you wana do and/or your average in highschool. I'm 18, and have never dated a younger girl

then I dunno what's so bad in being in university and dating an highschool girl, there could be just one year of difference. it ain't pathetic at all! consider yourself lucky for getting girls of your age, either in your zone girls have brains, or your just one of those popular dudes that the girls consider to be mature.

i seem to strongly disagree with your opinions, my opinion is that around our ages, a normal relationship would be a guy dating a girl of his age or till 2 years younger. 3 years is a bit harder to work, but it is aceptable. like dating an older girl, it hardly works, but it is aceptable.

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If you're dating a girl in hs a year or two younger than you and you go off to college, that's ok. If you're in college (let's say even post freshman) and you start dating a girl in hs, then you have serious problems.

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Originally posted by cassiopeia I understand that most guys just want to get into my pants. But has it happened? No. Will it happen anytime soon? No. My boyfriend & I have been together for 11 months. If he just wanted to have sex wouldn't he have left me by now? I'm not that special to wait around for. He knows if it is ever going to happen it won't be for a long time. Right now I don't think it will till i'm married. *sorry if that is too much information* I don't avoid all guys my age. It's just I never seem to meet any that I like enough to be with. I feel more comfortable around older guys, but that goes back to problems I have with myself. It isn't about maturity. I don't find myself to be more mature than other people my age. And when you all say security, do you mean financial? Because i'm not looking for that either. I prefer to pay for things myself, rather than have someone else pay. The type of guys who live around here are the type that get bagged out so much on this forum. I'm not saying I am above them because i'm not, they just don't interest me.

I was gonna tell you to keep thinking that (& tricking yourself) until I saw you were greek! lol... Yup, you speak of the truth babes!

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