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Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee dont make me start cos im not in the mood to and besides i personally want her to change her attitude cos i think she can be a nice person.....thats why i even have her on my msn list and have chatted with her on several occasions. and if u want to see arrogant sounding posts of hers, go to the earch field, type partyprincess in the username and read ALL her posts

i did...thats y i stuck up for her...i thought she wasnt showing off at all

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Originally posted by 'mju:zik i did...thats y i stuck up for her...i thought she wasnt showing off at all

one man's candy is another mans poison...

thats life....

thats the freedom of opinion and if people consider something harmful, they can do as they please...whether u can change that fact....thats a question that cant be answered......

to make things clear: partyprincess DOES piss me off too with her posts at times....

hell i piss alot of people off too with my posts...why the heck is this such a big deal???this is "only the net" right?? why should this be an issue to u?? i dont see her posting asking why shes disliked here on tota...let her speak for herself..i dont think that u nor Dr. Z nor anyone should be a spokesperson for another person.

we all have thinking capacities and it should be utilized.

im sick of this topic im off to bed

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Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee let her speak for herself..i dont think that u nor Dr. Z nor anyone should be a spokesperson for another person. we all have thinking capacities and it should be utilized.

u just want to get rid of her back lol well u should gang up on ppl its not a nice feeling trust me

also in the research i did do on this topic (since it was interesting from a psychological standpoint) i found that things that pp said were things others have said in one way or another...yet the others were not ostracized for it i have mentioned all this b4 by the way

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i can gaurantee you in 3 months nobody will remember or care about this issue ..

guys it's 2:26 AM.. go to sleep.

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Originally posted by The Highroller I COMPLETELY disagree with this. TOTA welcomed me with out any reservations or akwardness when I went to Talla. I had only been posting on the boards 2 weeks prior to this event and they welcomed me like one of their own. You are wrong.

I agree !!!! and Elmo there is a difference between having a different opinion and disrespecting others.

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although disrespecting is wrong, replying to it gives him/her power and attention, simply ignore what you don't like

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Last edited by djeso on Aug-01-2003 at 11:49

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Originally posted by 'mju:zik lol dr. z nobody likes to apologize... i think there is a seperate issue going on with some sort of obsession. especialy wit sterochic over there. your vanity plate is "NOT partyprincess" thats soooo gay. y u gotta go and do dat huh? hehe u gonna go and say its so ppl dont confuse u right? but like vivid said...90 percent of the time its a JEALOUSY thang. u even said how she was stuck up in person, she said that she never met u, so what did she walk stuck up? lol im sorry im picking on u but u are the most blatant with your emotions. the reason i dont meet u folk is that my friends wouldn't let me live it down lol but i love TAs for their knowledge...thats what brings me to this site, its a great resource peace yal

time and time again, marg has been confused w/ PP. and reemed out by ppl on occassion. to call it a jealousy thing is not valid or fair.

and why would your friends 'not let you live it down' if you met us? that souns clique-ish to me- what? we aren't 'cool enough' for you?

even if i have had issue w/ ppl on the board, i will totally give them a chance if i meet them in real life...and i think that a lot of us are that way. i'vre had board issues w/ a number of ppl but in real life it's always 'it's really good to meet you.' on this board if you are polite and kind you can be pretty much assured that ppl will give you the same respect and treatment back.

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Originally posted by partyprincess ...Oh yeah...To stereoprincess who says that my walk makes me stuck up or something? I don't believe we've met, honey. Couldn't you think of something better than that? Come on...that's pretty LAME! Maybe you should start making fun of my clothing again, that was MUCH more entertaining It's always interesting for me to see what kind of BS you guys are going to pull out about me next. Happy hunting!!!

I think it's when you go and say something like this is when you get degraded! stereoprincess is a cool person from what I can see, no need to take anything said personaly. I believe you said something about taking all this 'online' stuff as a joke? well then... take it as a joke. And besides, who said EVERYONE must get along? but at the same time, let's try and think of 'other' people and not just our selfish selves! Really sets a bad impression on the TA community.

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there is a bold line between a statement and an opinion.

a statement is usually a final word to an opinion and thats what partyprincess tends to do.

an opinion is a way of stating something that one believes and doesnt expect everyone else to share the same idea

eg.
statement: women only care about shoes.

opinion: i think that women only care about shoes since thats the only thing i see them buying.

see teh difference in the tone??? when u talk only in statements, then its bound to get u into trouble. hell, even ive gotten into trouble by making statements. dont act like partyprincess is a matyr of some sort.

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Originally posted by Provitex Sure some people might respond in a negative manner *uhm, rocco, uhm*....

hey, i said i was kidding. Just that sometimes u set urself up for being called gay

besides, what's wrong with gay ppl? i have a gay friend. he's pretty cool. he's a producer as well, signed with some no name american label.

edit: oh yea forgot about my post.. ~duh~

um ever since i joined, back in march, my welcome thread sure wasn't very big CLICKY but i've always averaged 3 posts per day so i've always said my opinion noob or not.

i'm not really into psychology, sociology or any of those studies that deal with how we deal with each other. All i know is there are two cases i've seen on TA which leads into flaming.

ONE:
a few ppl on TA who happen to just say the wrong thing at the wrong time and then ppl get pissed... or their sarcasm is not understood and they get flamed.That usually ends after a bit and they both cool down. For example me and Tara flamed each other ones but then when i first met her (TAI2) she was like "so ur the guy i flamed" ad i was like "meh, who cares, that was back then"
and i also met a few individuals on TA that i had a wrong first impression about and that changed right after. I'll get back to this point in my concluding statment.

TWO:
a few ppl on TA just happen to bitch and complain ALL the time and post REAL negative things (ok provitex i said i was only kidding. i'm sorry.. forgiveness please) and they are the ones that we should ignore. As for partyprincess, i think it's the fact that she never comes out to the parties and actually bother meeting any of us.

this is to partyprincess: COME SAY HI, obviously some will ignore u but some will talk to u. If u are really an awsome person, i don't see why ppl will not see that in real life and ignore their opinions, no mater how reserved they are and eventually TAs will realize ur not as much of a bitch u seem to be just cuz u have very different opinions.


Conclusion:
i have nothing against partyprincess yet i can't stand for her. All i can say is we really sholdn't take matters seriously. I've disagreed with many TAs b4 yet they are my commarades, buddies and friends. Some of them i chat with everyday off TA.. Some of them i see IRL at least once a week. A few i chill with everyday. What makes us unique is unlike many other threads where ppl are from different places, we are all within a 70KM radius where the majourity are within a 10 min car ride within each other. We see each other every weekend at least once and if many can't come out to the parties, they're still welcomed on the boards.
STATEMENT: TAs who have spoted each other IRL and been introduced to each other tend to forget about the flaming.

OPINION: i think we just drop whatever grudge we have once we're partying together just for the fact of our love and support for the scene and the DJs.. this is what i call PLUR we just have it in different form.

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Last edited by Rocco on Aug-01-2003 at 13:48

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Originally posted by Elmo-On-XTC True, I think this is because you weren't opposing any opinions in any threads. TOTAs are accepting if you have similar views...or don't cause controversy

I think this is BS. I expressed SO many opposing opinions on this board when I first joined, and argued with many many people. So much that when I actually met said people in person, they asked if I hated them. (Diginut!)

Yet, at the very few TA events I've been to, I've been warmly welcomed. Despite my difference of opinions on a LOT of things (PROG - nyuk nyuk) I think the TOTAs are a great group of people that I enjoy hanging out with.

Cliques are a part of society. They are everywhere. You are misled when you say "ravers don't have cliques; why is TOTA different?" EVERY rave-related message board shares the same characteristics as this one - people like to talk a lot of shit from behind a computer, but in person often put these differences aside. Welcome to the internet. This board is no different than any other; this does not mean that all the talk on the board is not something that needs to be carried over in person.

Some people take things WAY too literally. Yes, a message board is just as much of a communication and interaction tool as the phone or an email, but just like with those things, everything must be taken with a grain of salt.

Lastly, this partyprincess drama needs to stop. People, please take your bantering off the board and into some private messages. If this isn't worth PMing about, stop polluting the board with it.