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| quote: | If any girl says size doesn't matter she's lying through her teeth.
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wrong.
size is primarily a man-phobia.. guys are totally obsessed with it, and think that women are obsessed with it too.
in reality, most girls are fine with any size in between. too small (and when i say too small, i mean TINY... not small + average + anything below 7 inches) is bad because you cant feel it. too big (too big meaning, what most guys probably think girls WANT) is also extremely horrible. the vaginal canal is not a bottomless pit. once you hit the cervix, it HURTS. especially if you are with a petite girl.. she will be IN PAIN. thus, most girls dont like huge men.
again, the whole myth about size really mattering is all a self conscious phobia of males, not females. girls are fine with the majority of penis size, just not the extreme ends of it.
| quote: | | a girl will go off about her period and her mother, and you ask what that has to do about anything, and theyll start crying |
i know this was a joke, but i had to point it out anyways...
yet another thing that guys are obsessed with... always blaming any sort of emotions, negativity, or opposing opinions from the opposite sex as "HA HA YOU MUST BE ON YOUR PERIOD!". quiet possibly one of my biggest pet peeves about the male gender.
| quote: | she was crying when she found out she had it as the symptoms arose on her a week earlier than me.
when i had my recent outbreak 3-4 weeks ago....she told me...we should stop having sex for a while!
i dropped my jaw and was mad!.....she gave me the disease and we both have it and why tha fuk should we stop having sex. |
i didnt read your other thread, so i dont know any background info (fill me in if im missing something here), but are you sure it came from her? or are you just guessing that because she had symptoms first?
herpes is an extremely common disease, just like HPV. many people never have symptoms for herpes which is why it tends to spread without notice. i actually just went in for a normal physical and got my usual STD tests, and found out that you cant even get a blood test for HPV or herpes... it either shows up, or it doesnt. HPV, for example, if one partner has it, the other is assumed to, and there never is an option of blame, considering it is spread so easily and it would be impossible to rule out who is the one who had it first.
odds are, she is in shock.. she probably is feeling like she will be unwanted, or tainted for life. im guessing you feel somewhat the same? i doubt she will stop having sex with you entirely, but even though it is a common disease, you both just found out that you were unlucky ones to have symptoms at all... give her time to deal with her feelings, TALK to her about how she feels, so she feels better. then you will have sex again. if all you care about is the sex, dont be with her. its an absolutely horrid reason to stay with someone because you both have a disease. it isnt the end of the world, more people will like you and want to be with you.. its common.
and one more comment:
| quote: | | we been having alot of sex with no condom since we are our only partners from now on.... |
unless you have a vasectomy, this is a ridiculous thing to do. condoms dont just protect against STDs, they protect against pregnancy... even if she's on the pill, etc, that can still fail. do you want a kid on top of an STD?
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just messin with yah. yeah its a line from Dave Chapelle. but you do know that 2 things occur when you get groups of women together. 1, if the sweat from a womans underarm gets on the skin beneath another womans nostrils they will period @ the same time (some biology text at my uni had that) and besides that women who are around start perioding @ the same time. At work...God, there were like 10 chicks who worked together who all PMSd at the same time...every...frigging...month. It was pure hell, and they admitted to it, laughingly, im like HEHAH...not funny, you guys suck ass at that time. So it does have a certain amount of validity.
