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Originally posted by pvd420 I'm sure things will seem brighter in the morning.

Oh yeah?



I think that's a QED

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Originally posted by galdamez Oh yeah? I think that's a QED

and thats a werd.

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pvd420
i know exactly how you feel. it gets really depressing after a while. i meet people all the time at the clubs but it never works out. all i want is someone like me who loves the music and likes to party seems easy right? too bad it's not. then the fact that i live in a shit town hours away from everything doesn't help either..when i do meet someone i like the distance usually gets in the way. i'm starting to lose faith in the whole "soulmate" theory.

ye, I stopped beleiving in soulmate theory (of probabilities) LONG time ago..
its all about compromise though, u compomise for her and her compromises for u.. Its all about getting on the same page no matter what...
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Originally posted by vtec junkie and thats a werd.

actually, 3 words

Quid est Demonstratum or Quantum electro dynamics

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Originally posted by drizzt81 actually, 3 words Quid est Demonstratum or Quantum electro dynamics

it is not impossible to meet people in new york city. the last two guys i met where into it, you just have to go the right places. oen i met on a messageboard (he was a prick but they all arent) and the other i met in a park at an outdoor party. fortunately for us it rained so we were able to go somewhere else and actually talk.

anyway, a club is a bad place to meet someone for a relationship unless you are really lucky. it's dark, you can hardly see them or hear them enough to get more than a name. i think if you want to meet someone for a relationship of substance you need to be in a venue with less noise. my advice is get into the scene more, meet more people and through that you will meet more girls. you would be amazed at the amount of single people in the edm scene in new york.

ALL guys r into "it"..
- I know a russian couple that met @ SF, they r now married..
what is edm scene?
should we have our own dating thread?

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Originally posted by butterfly it is not impossible to meet people in new york city. the last two guys i met where into it, you just have to go the right places. oen i met on a messageboard (he was a prick but they all arent) and the other i met in a park at an outdoor party. fortunately for us it rained so we were able to go somewhere else and actually talk. anyway, a club is a bad place to meet someone for a relationship unless you are really lucky. it's dark, you can hardly see them or hear them enough to get more than a name. i think if you want to meet someone for a relationship of substance you need to be in a venue with less noise. my advice is get into the scene more, meet more people and through that you will meet more girls. you would be amazed at the amount of single people in the edm scene in new york.

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Originally posted by amdmaxx ALL guys r into "it".. - I know a russian couple that met @ SF, they r now married.. what is edm scene? should we have our own dating thread?

edm = electronic dance music

sound factory is a little different cause many people go there on a regular basis so it gives you more opportunity to let things develop casually over time.

thanks..

I'm in a similiar boat as pvd420 and many others who shared their stories. I'm 23 and have full time job, full time school, and dj/produce on the side. My co-workers are all 10 years older than me, married and with children. I attend night school where the majority of classmates have full-time jobs and their own very ambitiously busy lives. Those who don't, have a boyfriend. (Naturally) I gave up on letting love come to me because that doesn't work. I learned I needed to be pro-active to get what I want in relationships and in life. What I dispense now is my perception on how the dating life is from the eyes of a bachelor.

1. It is not about money. Why? Because when you meet a girl, they don't know whether you have money or not. They judge you in 30 seconds and decide whether you're worth their time. I think for most guys the problem is getting their foot in the door. In fact, my friend is always broke and he dates (and sleeps with) more girls than anyone I've ever met or heard of.

2. It's about attitude. Some people call it throwing vibes. Guys who act like they don't give a fuck gets a fuck. It's illogical but it's reality. I can't do this very well. It's not in my personality to be an asshole. I'm humble, cautious and introspective. Guys are littered with personality flaws yet flamboyant and confident enough to mask it gets the girl. Pretend you're watching a movie and you play yourself. And a girl has to pick between you (PG-13 guy) and some Rated-R guy who the audience isn't really sure whether they like him or not. The interesting character is obvious.

3. Don't be a "nice" guy. Nice guy to girls mean you're not the alpha male and subordinate to other guys. DOn't try to be nice all the time. You're either nice or you're not. No point in trying to be nice.

Here's an interesting story. My player friend has slept with 100+ girls and one day he tells me this. He has treated three girls in his entire life like gold. Bought them stuff, acted gentlemanly, prince charming type. Those are the only 3 girls that ever dumped him. Doesn't make sense. I know the guy well and I believe him but I still don't believe that's the way things work.

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