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Originally posted by cdn_trance_boy Nice quote Turbo sooo true. Right to the point. Far too many people continue to get abused for longer then they should in relationships cause they hold on to good memories of times past, they refuse to see the reality of there relationship in the present. Some times the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do. Sorry to sound like such a cynic. StereoPrincess I hope everthing works out for ya Cheers

yup yup true dat man

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my take on cheating...when u r young, its inevitable. Hell..lets do a tally here

GF1 Cheated on her with GF2-Broke up w/her for GF2
GF2 Cheated on her with Fling1(I didnt know I did until I was told so) stayed together for 2.5 years, some of it long distance
GF3 Cheated on her with GF4-Broke up w/her for GF4
GF4 Cheated on her with a Fling2-Got dumped for some other guy
GF5 Didnt cheat on her..only lasted 1 month
GF6 Cheated on her with 3 different girls...multiple times. Got cheated on once, 4 days into it. Dated 3 times for a close to 2 years
GF7 didnt cheat on her, and technically havent broken up yet...smeh
GF8 Didnt cheat on her, but got cheated on

m still single

Most guys I know are the same. Screw the its genetics..I cant help myself, I need to procreate argument. Guys my age just cant stay in a serious relationship, if there is a half decent offer, and a chance to not get caught, tell me what guy is gonna say no. Sadly mosy guys will say yes.

Now Stere Princess I dont know your situation, but if he cheated on you, youve done nothing wrong. And if youve cheated on him, and now you feel guilty as hell..its all natural. Each and every time I cheated I feel HORRIBLE afterwards...like, Puking my guts out bad. But in every case cept one I came clean, and ended it, or patched things up and kept going.

Christ, what am I saying..I dunno..If u cheated on him, dont let him make u feel bad for the sake of it. Feel bad for yourself if u regret it. If u dont regret it..well thats another story. If he cheated on you, dont make him feel bad for the sake of it..he SHOULD feel bad as is.

hope that helps
AND PLZ dont abuse me for being the most unfaithfull guy out there

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DAMN I wrote this after the question are you polish princess?...now its like 10 posts later!!!!

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Originally posted by j_spot my take on cheating...when u r young, its inevitable. Hell..lets do a tally here GF1 Cheated on her with GF2-Broke up w/her for GF2 GF2 Cheated on her with Fling1(I didnt know I did until I was told so) stayed together for 2.5 years, some of it long distance GF3 Cheated on her with GF4-Broke up w/her for GF4 GF4 Cheated on her with a Fling2-Got dumped for some other guy GF5 Didnt cheat on her..only lasted 1 month GF6 Cheated on her with 3 different girls...multiple times. Got cheated on once, 4 days into it. Dated 3 times for a close to 2 years GF7 didnt cheat on her, and technically havent broken up yet...smeh GF8 Didnt cheat on her, but got cheated on

haha that sounds exactly like my cycle :P. But on gf 3 it was cheat on her the day we started going out, cheat again numerous times, cheat on her with my last gf, then we finally broke up an I stayed with the last girl that I cheated on her with. HAHAH and I have recently gone through a partial break up and have already managed to cheat on her lol @ me. She still thinks all is good, the worst is like I said I feel no remorse.

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Originally posted by j_spot AND PLZ dont abuse me for being the most unfaithfull guy out there

hehehe dam u j_spot i was gonna say something about dat

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See..I DO feel bad, for a while @ least, then I realise that im 19 and that the relationship means nothing in the long run. Right now im still gettin some on the side from one of the 3 from girl #6. But she doesnt wanna date..beside, shes leaving for illinios on the 2nd

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HAHAHAH man j_spot we got a lot in common hahah, I'm gettin some right now on the side too right now til I move to las vegas in september heheheehhe I love it, no commitment, I don't think I ever want a relationship again. Been in 4 for the past 4 years, all went nowhere so I'm really starting to lose faith. This is the first time I've really been single on the dating scene since i was 15 and I am loving it.

I've cheated and been cheated on.

It's not worth it. I'll go out and fool around and if over time somthing solid comes along with a girl she will have my undivided attention. I'm a little older then you guy's 27 and I was with my last women for 5 years. Never cheated on her or wanted too. (okay thats a lie I was married not blind).

I have only cheated once. That was for revenge on my gf who cheated on me. even though I hate her now I feel bad about what I did.
I was chated on twice. The second time was my longest rlationship ever, 2 years. She cheated on me 13 times and I didn't find out till our 2 year anniversary which also happned to be new years eve. Needless to say I dumped her on the spot.

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whoa thats rough. haha. I havent talked to the girl that cheated on me but the one I cheated on like 5 times and she knows still wants me back! wtf is wrong there?

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess Oh my god!! that actually happens?? what if it happens to me?? man, this sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!

No worries princess
What will be will be.
So don't spend your time worrying about something that may or may not happen. Just wait till you know to start worrying.

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Cheating sucks big time! There's never a good excuse and it should never happen. It completely changes people for the wrong reasons. It takes the innocence of a relationship and turns it ugly.

I might understand what you are going through. My first girl friend, I was in love with completely, but after twoyears we went through a make-up/break-up stage and she cheated on me. I ended up cheating on her for revenge, and confessed. We forgave each other and stayed together for another four years, but it took our relationship of pure love and bliss and added guilt and untrust. We became best friends and ended our relationship, which i miss. She was my first love, so it was hard to let go. Just understand, once someone cheats in a relationship it will change each others look at the relationship, there no way around it.

Know that you will find another person that will make your days shine, and give you purpose again. If you plan on getiing back with your b/f, talk to each other and get personal. Get pass it with communication. Good Luck, and God bless.

Payce

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