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Originally posted by hardstyle Peoples are fucked up this days Even cvhicks cheat on the bf's

oh no, even girls do it? well I never

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Originally posted by igottaknow First of all what the hell is "voweling"? Read this definition vow·el: A letter, such as a, e, i, o, u, and sometimes y in the English alphabet, that represents a vowel.

hahah i was thinking that too, but decided not to call him on it since my post was bitchy enough

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

buy her flowers and all will be forgiven...not

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who was better in the sack? thats the REAL question

you're fucked. if you dont tell her she'll know. if you tell her she'll know. if you tell her she wont forgive you. so, you're fucked, and you deserve it because obiously your love for her wasnt as strong as you thought.

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Originally posted by Terayon dude, simple, lie!

if you must make up something...

You got very drunk at a party and a girl ran into you spilled a drink on your pants and she was nice enuff to offered to help you get the stain out before it set. When you took your pants off back at her place she jumped on you. Even though you repeatedly told her no she wouldn't listen. Through the whole ordeal you closed ur eyes and thought of your gf. In the morning you woke up, shocked to discover that it wasnt a dream putting on your torn clothes, to your dismay hobbling past side table you noticed a used strap on dildo. Only then did it finally sink in that you had been raped.

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Originally posted by igottaknow In the morning you woke up, shocked to discover that it wasnt a dream putting on your torn clothes, to your dismay hobbling past side table you noticed a used strap on dildo. Only then did it finally sink in that you had been raped.

But I wasn't at that party.

I suggest you jerk off 7 times before going to a party without your girlfriend. And stay away from cocaine

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Originally posted by jennypie But I wasn't at that party.

I know i was your alibi for that night

*walks like a penguine*

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If you love her as much as you claim to lover her, after all those wonderfull moments, I dont know how you went as far as getting it with some other girl.
- Well, after that, nothing would be the same, although there are consequences. If you DO have a consciense, you will live with that guilt inside you. Lies generally dont last long, its like the madonnas song that says " The Truth is never far behind ". More if you had people that either knew your g/f on that party, or maybe the same girl seeking revenge.. who knows. If you dont lie to her, you have the chance of her forgiving you, and see that you really repented, and have got the guts to tell her. She will get mad, I mean, 5 years of TRUST and Love, where both at the moment will feel as if it was worth nothing. She will loose trust on you.. or maybe not. I personally, would lie and see it as something that never happen, but is I see that theres even a slight danger of her finding out, I would tell her straight up, to really forgive me, that that was the most coward thing I had ever done and blablabla, and that I do take guilt on me, and on that whore who "supposedly" seduced me.. while drunk, and that it just happened.. but then, you loose priviledges of going partying alone or drinking.. it takes the risk of changing the realtion a 360%.

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i didn't read all the replies but my suggestions are as follow:

Don't tell her, sometimes shit happen and if you don't say anything to anyone (yeah great for saying it on a board) then it never happened.

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If you have to tell her at some point, wait till you find the absolute right moment. Don't go and tell her what happened flat out. Even better, you could talk about the subject (cheating) and see what is her reaction. Learn from it and then choose the right wording to ease the shock. Be a diplomat. Tell her you made a mistake, you were high/drunk, you didn't like it, refuse to give any details as to WHEN, HOW and WITH WHO because those details are completely useless and will worsen the situation.

edit: wow, i guess i'm gonna get flammed after reading most of the replies

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