been in long distance relationship due to college (girlfriend is in college and im not) for the past nearly 3 years. Its a bit tough at times but next year we are buying a house and settling down so it can work.
LOT of dedication and there were some tough times, mostly because she got emotional not knowing when we were going to be together and all that good stuff.
Now that we know pretty much when we will be together it makes it easier on us both.
Mar-17-2004 20:31
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by LoCa
well its a bit of a long story... we were in HS together in gr 10 cuz i lived in canada for 2 yrs... then i left, we lost contact, and eventually in nov 2002 he found me again.
So i went back to see him and the rest is history
romantic
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Mar-17-2004 20:31
loca
the vibe raider
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Oz
quote:
Originally posted by jdat
Some of us said it could work and others said it couldn't
I personaly had a relationship online with this chica from china for 3 years but after spending 6 months discussing politics and stuff and always argueing ( like the fact that Taiwan is it's own country and does NOT belong to Mainland China and she's get so pissed off ) ..... She actually ended up cheating on me even sending me pics of her with the bastard when she announced it to me But I honestly never believed in the relationship one bit ( that was for various personal reasons tough ).
yes i can see how that could cause disillusionment
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Mar-17-2004 20:32
loca
the vibe raider
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Oz
quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
romantic
yes i think so too
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Mar-17-2004 20:32
jdat
Jay Van Dat
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: I dont even know
Loca that's a lovely story! I wish you the best
quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
john.... omg... the truth comes out....
did you meet her on the net too? have you seen her IRL?
Yeah I met her on the net ... She found me on ICQ and we jus started talking; I think she really just was out to get a westerner boy.
What's IRL ?
TBH the girl was flipping out on me and I think I pulled the worst shit I ever could have. The day after 9/11 she sends me this email saying that america got what they deserve and that she was happy that all these people had to burn alive ( ok I'll stop the grusome details now ) etc etc .... My sister was supposed to be in one of the towers right then; and 5 people I knew died because of the event so hearing some stupid bitch ( pardon my lack for a more insulting words ) tell me things of that nature only made me wish never to speak to her ever again.
Mar-17-2004 20:45
ambs
Girl Le Disko
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Curacao
long distance can work. if you REALLY want it to...
i'm now in a long distance relationship and I know I fully trust my sweetie and he trusts me too. I guess it helps that we talk to each other constantly and that we've been such good friends for a while that we really know each other...
The biggest challenge is trust and dedication... if you have 100% of both, it WILL work
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Mar-17-2004 21:02
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
john, IRL = in real life
how can you have an internet girlfriend and not know that???
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Mar-17-2004 21:07
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade
You have a girlfriend and you want me to move in with you?! Bastard! You broke my heart!
*edit* Besides, I'm 4'5", 260 lbs, and have acne. Sure you want me to move in?
well...i don't know what to say...i'm attracted to beached whales...
Mar-17-2004 21:14
getfoul
LOL Tiesto
Registered: Jan 2004
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by anuneventrade
On intarweb relationships.... Echo of Silence, Whiskers, Emil, Boomer187, fuct4less, PhloTron, Photo_bot_2k1, and Mebot and I are all going to get married in Vegas! And we're going to live in booom boooom booooomers house!
Long distance can work if eventually you're planning on getting closer.
Hey now, i was involved in this too
Mar-17-2004 21:17
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by getfoul
Hey now, i was involved in this too
so was montie... and tuan too
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Mar-17-2004 21:26
jdat
Jay Van Dat
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: I dont even know
quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
john, IRL = in real life
how can you have an internet girlfriend and not know that???
oh piss off Drew ! I'm a n00b on the internet I ain't down with the lingo yet I've only had access since 94
when are we meeting IRL?
Honestly first thing that comes to mind when I hear IRL is IRELAND
Mar-17-2004 21:27
jdat
Jay Van Dat
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: I dont even know
quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
so was montie... and tuan too