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Originally posted by torontotrance says who? I got overweight friends and I find they are nicer people than the hotties. I'm not great looking and I'm secure with that and I try to give the time of day to all people in the beginning (fat, thin or whatever). I was fat once, I understand all about society's problems with them. If a fat girl approaches me, I'm honesty more likely to talk to them then others (tho I rarely refuse a hottie as well). I enjoy talking to people (I've made great friends). I will always be fed up with society's view of people because I've been on both sides of equation.

so if you never had been overweight you would probably be part of the aforementioned society's shallowness too then? well it's great that you oversee physical appearances but you cant deduce the fact that overweight people tend to be nicer. and technically you arent part of the other side of the equation yet.

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Originally posted by elena i didnt particularly want pics of you tta, i was referring to Floorfiller who seems rather confident about his body, . moreover, you can't deny the fact that you ARE bitter, anyone would be if they had been in your position. aside from society's shallowness, manipulative media, yada yada yada, im sure that you wouldnt have given the time of day to any overweight girl either and probably wouldve cracked a joke on the side too.

i suppose i'll STFU then...i don't have a camera...

perhaps i'll take off all my close at Zabeila's and have UWM take pics of me for you. when he comes here hehehe

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Originally posted by jennypie I can honestly say that I don't like 6 packs. I really don't dig muscly dudes at all. I like guys who look natural, themselves, REAL. So all you gym monkeys can go to hell. Except Dave, cause he's my friend. Oh, and Andy too, cause it makes him feel good. But yeah, the rest of you...bleh.

you dont neccessarily have to be a gym buff to have a six pack.
i dont dig those super ripped guys either, too unnatural.
as long as the kid can run without having his lungs collapse and be rather fit, relatively in shape, can touch his toes (flexibility usually being disregarded by lots of men) he's good to go.

oh and elena,

the v that i was referring to was the lower one

I've seen it both and I don't care if you believe me or not. I've seen the shallowness because I was thin in my teens...fat later then thin again....if I had never been overweight, I'd still know about it. My best friend has had weight problems, his entire life, I've seen how people treat him and my father is fat as well. I'm just pointing out how I saw it and I do deduce that the fatter people have been nicer because that is what has happened to me. I did not think that people would agree with me, I'm not in your shoes and you are not in mine. I'm just pointing out the original post was that he thought since he looked good, he would get laid more often and I thought that was shallow.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i suppose i'll STFU then...i don't have a camera... perhaps i'll take off all my close at Zabeila's and have UWM takes pics of me for you. when he comes here hehehe

well now that youve said what youve said. i have a few requests:

1. pic of your midriff
2. pic of rob
3. tons of pics of james, specially when he does that evil grin of his right before he throws down some sick breaks or goes at it scratching.
cheers!

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Originally posted by torontotrance I've seen it both and I don't care if you believe me or not. I've seen the shallowness because I was thin in my teens...fat later then thin again....if I had never been overweight, I'd still know about it. My best friend has had weight problems, his entire life, I've seen how people treat him and my father is fat as well. I'm just pointing out how I saw it and I do deduce that the fatter people have been nicer because that is what has happened to me. I did not think that people would agree with me, I'm not in your shoes and you are not in mine. I'm just pointing out the original post was that he thought since he looked good, he would get laid more often and I thought that was shallow.

definitely have to agree with the original poster's shallow intentiones. however niceness doesnt have a directly proportional relaionship with weight. a lot of times overweight friends of mine create this whole complex theory just so they can hide behind it (not implying that you did though) i totally agree with you about today's shallowness but sometimes i even cant stop myself from being sucked in at times, though i try to stop myself when i can. props to you if you can put all that aside and still manage to take a point of view from the outside.

floorfiller: yeah the lower v is HAWTT!

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Originally posted by torontotrance I've seen it both and I don't care if you believe me or not. I've seen the shallowness because I was thin in my teens...fat later then thin again....if I had never been overweight, I'd still know about it. My best friend has had weight problems, his entire life, I've seen how people treat him and my father is fat as well. I'm just pointing out how I saw it and I do deduce that the fatter people have been nicer because that is what has happened to me. I did not think that people would agree with me, I'm not in your shoes and you are not in mine. I'm just pointing out the original post was that he thought since he looked good, he would get laid more often and I thought that was shallow.

TTA i think you got the right perspective on life. i'm really happy for you with the success that you've had losing your weight. i hate shallow people too. i've never really had any weight problems, but i've had women just date me cause of looks. people like that are really useless. i try to avoid them as much as possible...

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Originally posted by elena well now that youve said what youve said. i have a few requests: 1. pic of your midriff 2. pic of rob 3. tons of pics of james, specially when he does that evil grin of his right before he throws down some sick breaks or goes at it scratching. cheers!

hehehe i'll pass on the message...now...i think i'm gonna go workout...i wouldn't want to dissapoint hehehe...

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Originally posted by elena you dont neccessarily have to be a gym buff to have a six pack.

Gym monkey = figure of speech. I guess I should have been less specific with my wording. I'm not interested in guys, actually, I'm not interested in anyone who puts most of their efforts into how they look. I understand maintaining a healthy weight, but to me anything more after that is just a waste of time. Your body doesn't go with you into the after life when you die, only your soul. Hey wait...does my soul look fat in these jeans???

no....not the pics I've seen.

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Originally posted by jennypie I'm not interested in anyone who puts most of their efforts into how they look. I understand maintaining a healthy weight, but to me anything more after that is just a waste of time.

that would explain the mustache and beard