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Originally posted by ShadoWolf You didn't have to say that; I could tell you think that way based on how well-dressed you are in your clubing pics.

Yes, but that's to go out. I don't want to come across that I would want someone to always look that way.

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Originally posted by igottaknow I agree sounds like aron's just bitter. Generally girls aren't attracted to up tight geeks who cyber all day complaining that girls fall for the wrong type of guys. My advice: go offline, loosen up, have a beer, and attend social events, instead of brooding at home why the world is unfair.

I haven't even been online for the past week, nor did I make any indication of having personal issues with this... what is your problem? Do you think that every person's "pet peeve" reflects some kind of deep-seated insecurity, or are you just trying to put other people down on an internet forum so you feel better about yourself?

Sounds like someone's bitter today, but not I...


*edit* also seems like a few of the girls here don't like it either, so you be the judge of who's "brooding."

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Originally posted by DigiNut I don't really feel like arguing, but Vivid Boy, you're assuming a lot of things here that I never said, and let me assure you that I wasn't asking for advice. Question: do you ever get haircuts? Do you shave? Do you shower? Do you do laundry? If so, why? Doesn't that constitute "trying too hard?" Obviously you do, and obviously you don't call that overdoing it. You're supposed to shower and look presentable. Yes it's great not to care what other people think, but there is still a bare minimum that one generally has to keep up in order to maintain the respect of his/her peers.

yes no shit digi butr theres a difference between keeping urself clean and being straight out fairy toe shoes that skips to never ever land on a clean golden path...might as well have ur momma lay out ur clothes for you too.. but yes i keep myself clean and i wash my clothing and i do my maintenance but i dont do it to impress people i do it out of self respect...i feel i shpould look my cleanest my best cause I deserve it not because some hoe im gonna meet at the club deserves it..thats the difference....people with self respect get farther then p[eople who have none...so askur self why do u keep urself at ur best? is to attract ur lover to be or because u feel u should cause u deserve it...

sorry digi dont battle me on this subject..cause i can pick up a chick whether im wearing my hat to side or not wearing a hat at all..so ur whole magical hat theory is thrown out the window..might as well put on your thinking hat turn it sideways and figuree out what ur doing wrong..

and trancebrat i agree theres a time and a place to be very casual and not...if im just running an errand (depending what it is) a pair of track pants and a t shirt hat to the back listening to my rap...if im going to a bar a casual bar ill throw on a pair of jeans and a casual shirt...if im going some where nice ill dress up..it all depends on the situation...

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Originally posted by DigiNut *edit* also seems like a few of the girls here don't like it either, so you be the judge of who's "brooding."

yeah maybe so but these are different girls then ur regular chick u meet in toronto...lets face it theyre on an internet forum which says alot to me...(not a bad thing)

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy yeah maybe so but these are different girls then ur regular chick u meet in toronto...lets face it theyre on an internet forum which says alot to me...(not a bad thing)

are you implying that girls who are on internet forums aren't superficial materialistic bitches?

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yeah basically...u can tell right now theyre not looking in the mirror wondering if they need a boob job...theyre actually reading peoples thoughts on different subjects...intellectual bitches...











but now the question is are they ugly cause they study or do they study cause theyre ugly?

Dear lord Eric, what are you trying to prove? I never said I had personal problems, just that I notice a disproportionate amount of beautiful girls here hanging around with guys that look utterly horrible. The part about wearing a hat myself to get them was obviously a joke, I'm sorry that you seem not to have picked up on that.

Your point about self-respect IS EXACTLY THE POINT - slobs are people with no self-respect, so why would any self-respecting mate want to hang out with them? You're looking at this the wrong way, I don't have a problem with the guys looking like shit (they look like morons but it's their own business I guess), I have a problem with the girls who spend their time with guys who obviously don't take care of themselves. Almost every girl I know and respect will say that she wants a guy who takes care of himself.

You're right - people should take care of themselves out of self-respect. But people should also spend their time with other people who take care of themselves. I don't want to hang around with total slobs and neither should they.

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Originally posted by DigiNut I haven't even been online for the past week, nor did I make any indication of having personal issues with this... what is your problem? Do you think that every person's "pet peeve" reflects some kind of deep-seated insecurity, or are you just trying to put other people down on an internet forum so you feel better about yourself? Sounds like someone's bitter today, but not I... *edit* also seems like a few of the girls here don't like it either, so you be the judge of who's "brooding."

Whatever dude, I'm not the one ranting about how unfair it is that girls fall for slobs. I think it's kind of shallow to be judging people based on how you think they should dress. Relationships don't usually revolve around the appropriate way to wear headgear.

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Originally posted by igottaknow Whatever dude, I'm not the one ranting about how unfair it is that girls fall for slobs. I think it's kind of shallow to be judging people based on how you think they should dress. Relationships don't usually revolve around the appropriate way to wear head gear.

Did I use the word "unfair"? Please find it, anywhere in any of my posts in this thread.

No, I didn't use it, because MY PERSONAL SITUATION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. When people complain that they hate it when people can't spell and can't string together a complete sentence, does that mean they think it's "unfair" that they still passed high school? No, it's just something irritating, so stop assuming things! I have no problem with my love life, ffs.

Could you please explain to me how it is "shallow" to care about the way people dress? We're talking about physical attraction here, not their chemistry marks. Relationships DO revolve around the way people look, most of the time anyway, and if you're honestly trying to convince me otherwise then I'd have to wonder just what kind of authority you're speaking from here.

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2009-02-21 - DJ Attention @ I'm So Popular
2009-06-18 - DJ Annoying @ People Need To Know Where I'll Be
2012-11-32 - DJ Insufferable ɸ Or At Least the Stalkers I Complain About
2048-06-66 - Spastic & Whocares ¶ Although I'm Actually Flattered
9999-45-81 - Tweaker Gimp ☼ I Probably Won't Even Go To This But I Have To Make Sure I Fill Up All The Available Space Here

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Originally posted by DigiNut [COLOR=#99CCEE] Almost every girl I know and respect will say that she wants a guy who takes care of himself.[COLOR]

Theres your first problem, you cant actually ask woman what they want, its a mistake most men take. When you take advice from a woman on what they want, you are making the biggest error you can possibly do.

the way you dress is a reflection on your personality. the manner in which you present yourself to others allows you to make a judgement on that person whether you realise it or not.

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Originally posted by Rodrico Theres your first problem, you cant actually ask woman what they want, its a mistake most men take. When you take advice from a woman on what they want, you are making the biggest error you can possibly do.

So, are you saying that what he wrote isn't true? I don't think he said he turns to women for "advice". He was making a statement more than anything and in my opinion his statement was dead on.