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Originally posted by OurManFlint I'm not a girl, but girls hate it when you are too nice to them. I mean imagine if a girl was too nice to you. It just gets boring.

the love doctor has entered the building.

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Originally posted by Radagast I prefer to be beaten over the head with a sock full of batteries myself.

scarred.

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Originally posted by Slylee well we're not all like that. i was stereotyping. it goes both ways. a lot of guys are insecure womanizers and hurt girls all the time, feeling no remorse.

no no...i'd say they are all like that hahah

doing something for another person is fine so long as it doesn't compromise your own time, goals and so forth, too much. when it does you're done. that's what is too nice.

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Originally posted by Arbiter Hmm... well there are alternative explanations. But with limited knowledge of the individuals involved I'd still bet on run-of-the-mill self-esteem issues. Sometimes the most insecure people are the ones with the least reason to feel that way.

Agreed.

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Originally posted by Zilax How nice is too nice?

It's not a matter of niceness, it's 2 things: boring vs. fun to be with, and needy vs. fun to be with. Being too nice can be interpreted as being too needy....always helping them out with everything (all the freaking time), always being with that person "just in case," etc... You just get to see too much of that person and your interest quickly dies out. Not only that, but some people might start to think that you're the stalker-type if you make it seem as if that person is the only thing in your life.

And it's not about being an asshole vs. not being an asshole, it's about being self-confident and self-assured vs. sitting on your ass and doing nothing or just being plain nervous all the time. If you see two people give a speech, same exact speech, but one person is visibly nervous while the other person is calm and relaxed, maybe even into it, which person are you going to think did a better job? It's the outward appearance that counts.

People who have an excessive amount of self-confidence are oftentimes seen as cocky, and therefore assholes. Granted, there are girls out there that really are attracted to assholes - this is usually due to a self-esteem problem of some sort. However, most normal people don't want to be treated like shit. There's a reason we have things like manners and being polite and such - a majority of people prefer them to having people be assholes. How many people truly want to be physically or emotionally abused? If the number was significantly high, the S&M industry and the like would be one of the more profitable places to be in. So if we can safely rule out the idea that people are attracted to assholes BECAUSE they are assholes, what is it that the assholes have that most others don't? Disregarding moral/ethic belief systems, how many non-assholes would even have the gumption to go up to someone and start ridiculing them? This is EXACTLY why I feel it's about self-confidence and outward appearances, and NOT how you treat people. Girls like the assholes DESPITE the fact that they're assholes, not BECAUSE of it.

Oh yeah, fuck the game

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man..time people started realizing what the key to a woman's heart is...it isnt diamonds, definitely not flowers, and fuck sentiment..one thing stands above all else, and one thing only:

giving face. for the few of you who don't know what this is, it's also called cunnilingus.

however, all things do have a bad side..and unfortunately, giving face is much like working for the mob.

one slip of the tongue...and you're in deep shit.

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Originally posted by d0uble h3lix **warning: rated R content follows** man..time people started realizing what the key to a woman's heart is...it isnt diamonds, definitely not flowers, and fuck sentiment..one thing stands above all else, and one thing only: giving face. for the few of you who don't know what this is, it's also called cunnilingus. however, all things do have a bad side..and unfortunately, giving face is much like working for the mob. one slip of the tongue...and you're in deep shit.

very clever