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Originally posted by fr0st I believe you should stop asking questions on the net. And be more confident in yourself and just do it. What other people think should have no direction on what you do. If a girl doesn't like you for being your self and doing things you normaly would do, then you shouldn't be with her.

good point

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[11:58] Bas //: fuck he's hot

i hope it works out for you serg

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Originally posted by BxNemo ok, please please please, if you read what vlad wrote, also try and read that ITS PART OF THE CARD, i didn't write that. Also, she evetually started talking to me. I went for about 4 days without saying a word to her, didn't im her, didn't text her, didn't call her... i did ask about her and how her family was doin but i asked my cousin who is her bet friend. Seems like things are on alright terms right now because we're talking to eachother the way that we used to which i LOVE because for the past 4 days its been hell not being able to say a single word to her. I'm just not sure when were going to get back on the terms that we used to have... i miss that more then anything. thanks everyone for your opinions and suggestions

Sorry, I did read that later. =(

ok so.. here is my personal take on this.

Personally at one point in our lives, some and usually most of us have had situations with someone we were or are with. At one point, 2 years ago I broke up with my gf of 3 years. This killed me, we didn't speak for a bit and she kept telling me she needed space. She told me she needed space, etc etc. I ended up calling her like every week or so and just aasking questions and what not. I harassed everyone for their opinions and what they thought was going to happen.
Truth is, everyone failed and everyone was right. Honestly, no one can give you the answers, and I know you'll be asking around and doing what you need to do just to feed that desire of yours to know.

Sadly, when someone needs their space, you need to give to them. Honestly, the ball is in their court at this point. You need to go offf and do things that are self-focused. As much as we all tell you what we believe you should or shouldn't do, or we tell you that you're doing the right thing... that may not be the case. Secondly, I know you won't listen to anyone telling you what to do, like "Don't ask or read these answers". Its human desire to do so, no matter how hard you try. Love is Pain and Pain is Love. So I won't tell you what to do or what not to do. I and many others are simply just stating what they did or WOULD do, try to take it as that, decide on your own, follow your heart.

Confidence is key, I agree. Doing your own thing and showing that you're busy and taking care of things in your own life and letting her do her thing will only provide the answer. If you let it go and it comes back, its meant to be. If you let it go and it doesn't, well it wasn't meant to be. Secondly, do not judge things by time, you can't do this. I realized this. It took me 6 months to finally have the will power to cut off everything and every desire to cut myself from my ex. Later I met a new girl who I have been with, and sure enough my ex came back a year later crying and wanting to work things out, and I can't say I went back to her, but many of my feelings were still the way they were when we brokeup or prior to it. Life is strange, for some it works and for some it doesn't.

Just do what you feel is right for yourself, and what you believe will make you or her happy or whatever. Just use everyone advice as just people venting their experiences.

yes. def give her the space she needs but you should say hi once in awhile to see wassup. if you dont give her the space she mite end up resenting it and pulling further away but then again if she sees ur genuine and that u love her, mebbe this will be resolved sooner than later. hoepfully sooner.

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i understand that and its what i'm doing, ok, you guys need to stop saying all these things and realize that i'm asking for opinions and nothing more, i want to see what other people think and if they have different views it doesn't mean that imma change what i wanna do.

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Originally posted by BxNemo i understand that and its what i'm doing, ok, you guys need to stop saying all these things and realize that i'm asking for opinions and nothing more, i want to see what other people think and if they have different views it doesn't mean that imma change what i wanna do.

Dude, and you should do what you think is right, despite what we are all telling you. Here's a quick little bit of advice that I usually make my decisions by: Follow your hearts lead, for it will always lead you in the right direction. Trust me, it works bro.

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Originally posted by BitchBoyNYC Dude, and you should do what you think is right, despite what we are all telling you. Here's a quick little bit of advice that I usually make my decisions by: Follow your hearts lead, for it will always lead you in the right direction. Trust me, it works bro.

i would, but my hearts always broken and i never get a good read from it.

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Espen & Elusive - Poetic Penetration (Furry Nipples Remix) 5 fuckin stars!
Second Sun - Playground
Interstate - I Found You

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Originally posted by BitchBoyNYC Dude, and you should do what you think is right, despite what we are all telling you. Here's a quick little bit of advice that I usually make my decisions by: Follow your hearts lead, for it will always lead you in the right direction. Trust me, it works bro.

before you decide on anything, just think of all the long term implications

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[11:58] Bas //: fuck he's hot