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| quote: | Originally posted by b4k-oz
IMHO I feel Twilly and Karim have made some valid points...
Firstly, being a parent isn't always planned (so it's illogical to say that a person has no business being a parent if you can't control your kids)and fast food is unfortunately the only choice a parent has when there is little time to make dinner. Sometimes our fast paced city lifestyle obligates both parent to work (to make ends meet) and to cut corners when it comes to cooking. Especially if the parent has to contribute their free time for thier childs extra curricular activities after school.
It's not as if we all have nannies, cooks and maids to make things easy on us. |
First, lets deal with your "unplanned" parenting. You know what people should do when they don't want kids? I do, and it's 100% effective. Here it is, it's a little "out there" so please bear with me... DON'T HAVE SEX! There, you've been enlightened. There's NO excuse.
Ok, on to your 'lack of time' argument. Maybe these people should be cutting things out of their schedule if they don't have 30 minutes to make dinner. Working for 8 hours a day is no excuse not to eat properly, what's wrong with the other 16 hours of the day? Maybe parents should't be letting their kids take piano lessons on monday, horseback riding on tuesday, soccer on wednesday, swimming lessons on thursday, and karate on friday. My parents were always pretty smart... when they made dinner one night, they'd prepare things that could be re-heated for the next day, it's called 'using your time wisely', which is a lost art these days. I'm not perfect either, I eat fast-food daily, I love it, it's very convenient, and when I have diabetes and high cholesterol, I know who to blame (here's a hint: it isn't McDonalds). There's a book that's been written called "The art of Slow" or something like that, you should give it a read. It's about how people try to do too much these days, then blame their problems on lack of time. Then is explains how to fix the problem. I wouldn't have enough time in my day either if I was taking piano/swimming/horseback riding/karate/math tutoring etc. etc. etc.
| quote: | | Secondly an over controlling parent will guarantee a bad parent child relationship. All parents can do today is teach them the difference between good and bad, then hope for the best from that child. Even if you teach the child that fast food is bad, it still does not stop them from wanting the food and with the bombarding of commercials and advertising (not including the friends that entice you to take that trip to Micky D), it does not make it easy on the parent either. I'm sure all mommies and daddies have said no booze or drugs....so you be the judge...does the average clubber do what the parents tell them not to do? |
Now telling your kids they can't have McDonalds is "over controlling"?! HOLY SHIT! My parents gave me 5 bucks a week and said "Too bad" if I wanted that Nintendo game, and I'd wasted all my money on candy. And whenever I think back on it I think "Man, they taught me some valuable life lessons on money management." And so what if your kid wants McDonalds? That doesn't mean you have to run out and buy it for them, you'd be amazed at how well "You aren't eating til you finish your brocolli" works on kids, eventually, they always eat that brocolli... unless the parents are wimps. My mom and dad taught me to be a responsible drinker, and I respected that they could accept my decision to drink, but were still able to coach me to do it responsibly. I come from a christian home, they didn't tell me "Don't have sex" (although they said they'd be extremely proud of me if I made the decision to hold off til I'm married), they taught me to respect females and made sure I understood all the risks involved with sex, they didn't just leave it to the schools to do their job, they did it THEMSELVES! And I took those lessons, and committed them to my decision-making for the rest of my life. But I guess in your world, they were being over-controlling.
| quote: | | Thirdly, in "Super Size Me" I think the point was not just about the fast food being bad....but also about the unhealthy additives in processed food...and how fast our bodies can be affected by poor eating habits. It's no wonder that North America (Canada included) suffers so much from Diabetis...practically every food contains sugar as a preservative. Is sugar necessary in our diets.....NO! Now just think of how many preservatives there are in say a McDonald's salad....do you seriously think that there aren't any (anyone who's tried keeping a salad with cold cuts/meats/hard boiled eggs etc, fresh looking in their fridge till next day can tell you that it's virtually impossible....unless it came from a fast food)? And do you actually believe that a corporation is doing business in the best interest of the public....No! They are there to make money. So before saying that parent should be "TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS" then it should also be said that Corporation should also take responsibility for their actions too. |
Dude, it's common knowledge that Fast-Food is horrible for you, it's common knowledge that excersize is a necessity to good health, it's common knowledge that corperations will say and do ANYTHING they are allowed to do, to try and make you buy their product. We are taught all these things, there's NO excuse for your own poor judgement.
| quote: | | IMO....this law was put in b/c lobbyists did their job well. Is it good....maybe...maybe it will make parents more cautious and educated about the health of their child. Was it the best solution....I don't think so. I believe a child should also get truthful and honest food education in schools, so that he/she can make good and healthy food choices in life. Till that happens, then the problem of a corporations self interest will continue at the cost of a childs health. |
They DO get truthful and honest food education in schools. I was taught that we shouldn't eat Fast Food because it can kill me. That was truthful and honest... what did they teach YOU? On top of that, a parent should never provide their child with enough personal income that they could cause serious damage to their bodies when the parent isn't around, they the parent is doing that, they are not a good parent, and it's THEIR fault their kid is dying, not the corperation's.
| quote: | | Besides, how is it possible that anyone can hold a parent responsible for everything their child does wrong. That kind of a mindset can only come from a person that is not mature and has never been responsible for anyone but themselves in their life. |
It's not about holding the parent responsible for everything their child does wrong. It's about the parent not providing the child with the means to carry those decisions out. If a parent finds an Eminem cd in their 12 year-old's room, and feels that it is no good for their kid, they should be removing that CD from the child's possession. If a parent finds out their child is eating McDonalds every day with their allowance, they should be lowering the ammount they give to that child. If a parent finds out their child is smoking, they should be looking around their kid's room and knapsack, and getting rid of those cigarette's the kid loves so much, also, making sure that the money their kid is getting for allowance isn't paying for the habit, teach that kid "Hey, if you want to kill yourself, you use YOUR money, not mine, get a job. Until you quit, no more allowance." I had an allowance, then I dropped out of school. My parents said "hey, you're not in school, get a job, we aren't paying to let you live in our house and do nothing with your life, while you're at it, when you DO get a job, you get to pay 40 bucks a week to live with us and eat our food." I've learned more about personal finance in the last year than I ever did while getting 25 bucks a week for being a "good kid".
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