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| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
A popular dating technique is called 'branching'.
Essentially named from the idea of climbing up a tree and grabbing onto a branch and not letting go of the last branch until the next one is firmly in hand. Many people have a fear of being single and will keep their options open, and have people in reserve should things not work out with their current flame.
When you like people that are in relationships you end up getting hurt most of the time. People are often afraid to make the tough decisions and leave even the worst of relationships, and even if they have a better option available.
It really comes down to what you want in how to deal with it hey. If you want some fun and don't mind a large head fuck then hang around, and most likely you'll not want her even when she does leave the other guy. Personally I'd not put myself in the position to be hurt by liking someone in a relationship because these things can really drag out and you end up beign used a bit of an emotional boxing bag.
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Hit the nail on the head. This can also apply to a situation where two parties are just friends. The situation im in revolves around a girl that im friends with, we get on great when we hang out. But its always me making the first move all the time. So ive held back, this method is a really great way of seeing who your friends really are, and if someone "likes you" more than a friend.
If they never bother getting in contact with you, you know A/That they are only using you for their ego and B/Using you as a friend as a last resort when they get lonely because their regular friends are not about.
I dont know why the world has to work like this, and personally ive grown up from using people for any purpose, i dont see why people treat their supposed friends like shit, but dont stand for it.
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