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Originally posted by smokeape Which kind to want a lasting relationship with?

Considering that we're talking about a high school relationship, I think it's unlikely that it'll last.

Whatever you do, don't worry if both will get mad at you. You're in high school. You'll get through this no matter what the outcome is. No need to have so much guilt or whatever. It's not like your life is depended on this situation.

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit I'm kind of worried that might be too heavy for a first-time present; do you really think it's that good of an idea?

Well... don't get her a locket with your picture in it, or an engraving with your names and a heart... just keep it simple (and not tacky )

Flowers work well too (as previously mentioned) but they might be hard to sneak past Jenna if you go to the dance with her

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why do all of us ta's have loser girl problems? this is becoming more and more frequent holy shit.

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Man!!, you are not in front of a super lifetime situation. It's just a girl... whateva happens, you gain experience, so just act cool, comfy and natural and see what happens...

My advice would be NOT to stay exclusively with Sarah. Women hate clinginess... If she sees you socializing (or more) with other girls, she will see that you can always get other girls and will fell a bit of jealousy that will surely increase her attraction for you...


Attraction isn't a choice

this isnt really a dilemma, man - it's just a case of you being too shy for your own good

spend time with sarah at the dance, tell her how you fkn feel and let everything out into the open - it's obvious that she likes you but at these valentine dances it usually ends up with pretty much everyone who has a grain of charisma to pick up at the end of the night

don't leave things that late, if you like this girl it's really not worth the risk!!

telling a girl how i felt was quite possibly the hardest leap of faith that i'd ever had to do in my life but now at least i know that i can do it...

one month.... *bricked*

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Originally posted by mto By only glancing at the title i thought you had a "PC Girlfriend." I felt sad for you for a second.

I thought the title meant a girl he knows is having problems with her computer and he wants to help her.

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Originally posted by whiskers pulp is gross, it feels like i'm swallowing someone's load

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Originally posted by dj_bas why do all of us ta's have loser girl problems? this is becoming more and more frequent holy shit.

Speak for yourself, I'm happily married with kids. The f*cking kids are the problem, not me and the old lady. We get along pretty good.


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Originally posted by -=M=- this isnt really a dilemma, man - it's just a case of you being too shy for your own good spend time with sarah at the dance, tell her how you fkn feel and let everything out into the open - it's obvious that she likes you but at these valentine dances it usually ends up with pretty much everyone who has a grain of charisma to pick up at the end of the night don't leave things that late, if you like this girl it's really not worth the risk!! telling a girl how i felt was quite possibly the hardest leap of faith that i'd ever had to do in my life but now at least i know that i can do it... one month.... *bricked*

This is probably my biggest problem, thank you for addressing it so clearly. I am shy; you have to understand I've never gotten attention from girls before in my entire life and in the past year I've gotten ridiculous amounts. I know I have to tell her that I like her if I want things to progress, but everytime I think about it it never seems like it's the right time.

Would giving her a gift like the ones discussed send a message?? Would it say what I can't?

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit This is probably my biggest problem, thank you for addressing it so clearly. I am shy; you have to understand I've never gotten attention from girls before in my entire life and in the past year I've gotten ridiculous amounts. I know I have to tell her that I like her if I want things to progress, but everytime I think about it it never seems like it's the right time. Would giving her a gift like the ones discussed send a message?? Would it say what I can't?

mate i'm exactly the same way - i had absolutely no self confidence and was always very shy when it came to being around any girl until... lets just say a certain event which i broadcast in cor put things out in the open and i just called the girl and told her how i felt - after doing that once, mate - you'll feel the biggest weight taken off your chest and talking to almost any woman will become very easy

after receiving an sms from her not 20 mins after i posted the previous message i know she has read this thread --- V, back me up here, would ya?

Well I took Sarah out on a date today, Valentine's Day, after school; we just went and got some food at Panera and hung out a little bit at the mall before she had to go to piano. I was nervous pretty much the whole time, but generally I think it went well. I think from here on out, things will just continue to be in an upward rise. Thanks for all your help everyone!

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit Well I took Sarah out on a date today, Valentine's Day, after school; we just went and got some food at Panera and hung out a little bit at the mall before she had to go to piano. I was nervous pretty much the whole time, but generally I think it went well. I think from here on out, things will just continue to be in an upward rise. Thanks for all your help everyone!

Now THAT's what I'm talking about. Somebody who updates the thread. Good luck with her.

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Originally posted by whiskers pulp is gross, it feels like i'm swallowing someone's load

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