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Originally posted by Slylee hmmm what about if you want to cut up their brains and put it in a frying pan w/ some butter and garlic and eat them, that way they'll always be a part of you?

mmmm butter and garlic! that is love!!

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I would suggest the difference between making love and fucking is more to do with motivation then anything else. If the desire to have an orgasam is what motivates you to sex then what you are doing is fucking. If your goal is to create a deeper feeling of unity and intamacy between you and your partner then you are making love.

good point. i didn't think of that but you are right on!

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Interesting explaination. Now, in your theory is it possible for one person to be making love in hopes of having more while the other is on an entirely different page and is just fucking?

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Originally posted by JeasusIZaPimp Interesting explaination. Now, in your theory is it possible for one person to be making love in hopes of having more while the other is on an entirely different page and is just fucking?

Yes, it is.

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Originally posted by JeasusIZaPimp Interesting explaination. Now, in your theory is it possible for one person to be making love in hopes of having more while the other is on an entirely different page and is just fucking?

yes, and i think that happens more often than people would like to admit. i mean i don't want to stereotype... but for many women, sex is an emotional thing, and for many men it's a physical thing. i think it happens quite often where the woman (or girl) is having sex to try to form a closer emotional connection, where the guy is just doing it to get off.

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lol, yes I agree. But I only agree in the sense that women tip the scales as far as men/women who get emotional. Men can be lil bitches too. lol, no offense guys..but there are a few of you out there that just dont go away. And at the same time there are women out there who just want to get off too. I think we are all screwed and we should stop talking about it and just bang.

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Originally posted by JeasusIZaPimp lol, yes I agree. But I only agree in the sense that women tip the scales as far as men/women who get emotional. Men can be lil bitches too. lol, no offense guys..but there are a few of you out there that just dont go away. And at the same time there are women out there who just want to get off too. I think we are all screwed and we should stop talking about it and just bang.

exactly, hence why i said "i don't want to stereotype... but for many women, sex is an emotional thing, and for many men it's a physical thing"... you have to take into account that everyone is different, it won't apply to all women and all men, but those ideas apply to a larger percentage of people.

i mean hell, i've told guys that were getting all lovey-dovey with me that i was just using them for sex.

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i've had sex and then i've made love...personally i prefer the love one...i don't think it has to be all missionary boring all the time...you can spice it up a bit...its more as people are saying a level of closeness with the person...

I think that this love word thats being thrown around is throwing me off. I have, I guess what you could call a love interest and the sex is much better than other sex, but Im still fucking. I dont want more than what it is, which is fucking, but at the same time I love it!! So maybe if you fuck a girl right she will just love it, worked for me! lol