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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I always get hit on by slutty slovic women in their mid 30s. I'm not slovic, a woman, or in my mid-thirties.

Try and look at it on a deeper level.

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Originally posted by töbias - Approaching a girl at a bar. - Arranging a date over the telephone. - Ensuring that no strings attached sex is no strings attached sex.

okay here we go...

Approaching a girl at a bar: generally, i'll eye around noticing body language from girls and where their eye contact is at. you'll know whos single, whos sick of drunk guys going up to her and whos in need of some refreshment. Don't get drunk at the bar, you have to be on top of your game with this

right now, i generally have large body language and actually point out a girl to come and walk over to me. usually i snap and point down to my feet. its the first step in establishing domiance with me. before that even happens i know something funny & cocky i'm going to say.

i stear away from the general questions, "why are you here" "what do you do" "questions about weather/politics/news"

if she asks me those, i usually come up with something completely out of the ordinary and RUN with it until its just so wildly out of control and funny she just laughs and all communication fronts are broken.

communication fronts meaning, that wall most attractive girls have when you first try and speak with them. for instance the other night a girl asked the "so what do you do?" question. i told her i'm a cardio-swim instructor. shes like whats that? i'm like well, i do cardio in a pool with floaties and weights with my grandparents and their friends on mondays & wed.

shes like "really?" i'm like yeah, i'm on week 5 right now and we just added weight all the way up to 7.5lbs. I'm like business isn't that good though, my grandparents & their friends are getting old and i'm losing a lot of my past clients.

i'll keep going with it all the way to the point of explaining the color and shape of the floaties i use and why. by the end she is so impressed i stayed completely congruent with my story she doesn't know what to believe and doesn't care.

i've set attraction with her. i made constant eye contact, had huge body language and i communicated with her on a different level with many subtlities that i do. Okay, thats enough on the bar question. I'll have to answer the other ones later i'm super busy at work today

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Originally posted by Zombie0729 okay here we go... Approaching a girl at a bar: generally, i'll eye around noticing body language from girls and where their eye contact is at. you'll know whos single, whos sick of drunk guys going up to her and whos in need of some refreshment. Don't get drunk at the bar, you have to be on top of your game with this right now, i generally have large body language and actually point out a girl to come and walk over to me. usually i snap and point down to my feet. its the first step in establishing domiance with me. before that even happens i know something funny & cocky i'm going to say. i stear away from the general questions, "why are you here" "what do you do" "questions about weather/politics/news" if she asks me those, i usually come up with something completely out of the ordinary and RUN with it until its just so wildly out of control and funny she just laughs and all communication fronts are broken. communication fronts meaning, that wall most attractive girls have when you first try and speak with them. for instance the other night a girl asked the "so what do you do?" question. i told her i'm a cardio-swim instructor. shes like whats that? i'm like well, i do cardio in a pool with floaties and weights with my grandparents and their friends on mondays & wed. shes like "really?" i'm like yeah, i'm on week 5 right now and we just added weight all the way up to 7.5lbs. I'm like business isn't that good though, my grandparents & their friends are getting old and i'm losing a lot of my past clients. i'll keep going with it all the way to the point of explaining the color and shape of the floaties i use and why. by the end she is so impressed i stayed completely congruent with my story she doesn't know what to believe and doesn't care. i've set attraction with her. i made constant eye contact, had huge body language and i communicated with her on a different level with many subtlities that i do. Okay, thats enough on the bar question. I'll have to answer the other ones later i'm super busy at work today

Excellent work, I think the girls in this world really enjoy stimulating conversation that makes them think.

I have a rather cheeky smile that is always beaming and it allows me to get away with saying or doing pretty much anything, and I really like you method of getting girls to come and talk to you. Its confident, commanding, and dominant.

Keep going.

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"The first stage of the great adventure has concluded happily, and here I am installed in Mexico, although I have no idea about the future" Che Guevara

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Originally posted by töbias - Arranging a date over the telephone. - Ensuring that no strings attached sex is no strings attached sex.

ok,

arranging a date over the phone:

generall speaking, i usually get email addresses before phone numbers. Its much less invasive to ask for an email address and also allows you to have more time to think about what your going to say. So, after a few SHORT emails, something funny and cocky i move onto the phone call.

usually it goes like this. "Vanessa(whoever), its Anthony. How are you?" "good" "Heres the deal, Tuesday, what is your schedule looking like? "umm i'm not sure" "ok, your going to come to my place at 7 and we're going out for coffee and some stimulating conversation" "she'll go well, i ..." if she stutters go "look, let me ask you a question on a scale of 1-10 whats the chance you will flake on me" if she says ANYTHING thats not a 0, you go "well okay, i'm not really interested then, flakeyness is one of my petpeaves. Why don't you call me when you can make something work"

80% of the time she'll catch herself and go, yeah yeah okay tuesday at 7. if she goes okay i'll call you back, you didn't set any kind of initial attraction in your emails or in your initial meet.

when she gets to your place, bring her in for about 2 minutes, go in your room, grab your wallet and keys and immediatly start briskly pushing her out. 99.9% of guys will try and keep her at their place in hopes of no coffee and a hook up. she'll be blown away that you're actually pushing her OUT instead of trying to keep her in.

coffee is FAR better than dinner, because why waste 50$ when you can waste 5$ and find out the same thing about their personalities. besides, conversations over coffee are genearlly more indepth than over dinner. you can always find out if you want to have this girl pursue you more or not.

lesson 3 in a little bit