Shot down. Unlucky.

This wouldn't happen to be related to a thread I might recall about some new living arrangements you were considering, would it?

In any case, I suggest you continue to drown your sorrows in alcohol at least for now, because if you really want to get what you want, you're going to have to do away with regret and sadness one way or another. But be aware: your situation is neither earth-shattering nor particularly uncommon. Whether you want to admit it or not, there are in fact many things far more painful than your situation. Unlike many, you may even have a second chance, I suggest you appreciate that and take advantage of it instead of worrying about mistakes you may have made in the past. You, at least, have something to fight for. So fight well.

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Originally posted by wwu.punisher I didn't get rejected for anything... I just made shit hard on myself and now I'm going to have to put up a hell of a fight to get the girl that I could have had two years ago had I not been too busy fucking off with other girls that meant nothing to me, in retrospect. Basically, I'm dating someone and so is she. This is going to be fun.

I don't feel empathy for you. Sorry.

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Originally posted by Arbiter You, at least, have something to fight for. So fight well.

wr0d.

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Originally posted by Arbiter This wouldn't happen to be related to a thread I might recall about some new living arrangements you were considering, would it? In any case, I suggest you continue to drown your sorrows in alcohol at least for now, because if you really want to get what you want, you're going to have to do away with regret and sadness one way or another. But be aware: your situation is neither earth-shattering nor particularly uncommon. Whether you want to admit it or not, there are in fact many things far more painful than your situation. Unlike many, you may even have a second chance, I suggest you appreciate that and take advantage of it instead of worrying about mistakes you may have made in the past. You, at least, have something to fight for. So fight well.

Having recovered from last night, I have to see that your post was one of the most intelligent I've seen on this forum in a LONG time. Thanks for that, man.

And yes... same girl from the other thread. I knew that this was going to happen quite a while ago.

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Originally posted by djmetatron I don't feel empathy for you. Sorry.

Not asking for it.

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Originally posted by wwu.punisher I don't cry. But I could shove this bottle up your ass and spin you like a turntable. How's that sound?

AWESOME!!!

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Originally posted by wwu.punisher Not asking for it.

then wtf was the point of this?

I'll partially agree with Nou on this. I've both been through the rejection feeling and the "oh my god i'm an idiot why didn't i talk to her maybe it could have worked out" feeling, and they equally suck (incidentally, i haven't been through the acception feeling ... so you might just ignore all this crap advice from an unexperienced geek). But i don't think one sucks more than the other. When you're in love or obsessed with a chick, everything that is not being with her is a major drama and will make you extremely unhappy, regardless if you talked to her or not.

So, what i'd really advice you is to come back to your brains and force yourself not to be so fucking obsessed and desperate about the chick, it's not the end of the world. Don't let the emotion lead your actions, be logical and make the right choice. Now what is the right choice, well that depends on the situation. I don't know the full details, but as you said that you're both on relationships with different persons, I think you should probably think a bit more about how is your relationship going, is it worth throwing it away to another chick you might or not end up with. Think about what are your feelings currently towards your GF, and what situation would you put the girl you're looking forward to if you messed up with her relation. Then make a choice, if you think it's worth risking all of that, then go forward.

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calm the fuck down. destroying your shit doesn't help anything. you'll just be w/o printer, broken glass on your floor and a few holes in your wall. if you need to release emotional tension that badly, you're a fucking pussy. it's one girl for one period in your life. i've had shitty breakups, i've been cheated on, but it all gets better man.

i never trust guys who take thier emotions out on inanimate objects. they're more likely to be violent people. don't be like that.

suck it up soldier, we're all here for ya. *hugs*

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lol, jesus christ. school boy error. everyone know's to send teh letter really. better of knowing something (even if isnt the answer you want) rather than never knowing and always wondering about it. god gave men 2 very useful things called balls everyone, so use them.

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