Exactly...

And research has shown that humans as a species arent monogomous in nature.

I'm not saying go around and try to spread your seed as much as you can, but saying that it is "wrong" to go out with more than 1 girl at a time is just taking it too far.

Just open your options, if ur not happy; leave. Ur not being selfish. You didnt waste the other persons time. It goes vice versa. Once you find that special someone and that special someone feels the same about you, then you go one step ahead in the relationship and try to be faithful or whatever.

Simple as that, I dont see any morality issues here. Keep an open mind about it cause theres bound to be a better person out there.

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Originally posted by Orbax lack of morals. Social Morals. Call me old fashioned but have you noticed the trend between number of partners and rise in disease? Im sure its just coincidence though...

i think it's possible to date more than one person while still keeping your morals in tact. i think as a general rule of thumb, most people who decide to date multiple people don't go about it in a moral and/or respectful way... which is why the concept of dating multiple people is so heavily looked down upon and scrutinized. most of us think of "dating multiple partners" as playing games or screwing around, and it's not always like that.

also, i would hope that anyone who isn't in a serious relationship, whether they're dating or sleeping with one person or ten, takes every step to protect themselves and their partner against diseases.

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Originally posted by trewqy Exactly... And research has shown that humans as a species arent monogomous in nature. I'm not saying go around and try to spread your seed as much as you can, but saying that it is "wrong" to go out with more than 1 girl at a time is just taking it too far. Just open your options, if ur not happy; leave. Ur not being selfish. You didnt waste the other persons time. It goes vice versa. Once you find that special someone and that special someone feels the same about you, then you go one step ahead in the relationship and try to be faithful or whatever. Simple as that, I dont see any morality issues here. Keep an open mind about it cause theres bound to be a better person out there.

What I was saying earlier is there is a fairly brief window...like 1-2 dates where its ok to see other people. But there is definitely a point where you are obligated to either cut it off or continue. To wait for both horses to cross the finish line is selfish and immature and youre taking advantage of someone.

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Originally posted by trewqy Right, like you've never "played the field" before. Please, you wanna act all sappy and self righteous about being faithful and caring about the other person's feelings, get out of this thread. Variation is the spice of life. If he hasnt told any of the 2 girls that hes going out with them "EXCLUSIVELY" then I dont really see a problem. What makes u think girls dont go out with more than 1 guy at a time?

theres nothing wrong with "playing the field" but i think there are limitations. variation is important but i think dating more than one person at once, regardless if you tell them about it or not, is kind of a dick move. someone will get attached and ive hurt enough feelings in the past to not want to have to do it again. maybe i'm just a casually nice guy but i think if you're interested in "playing the field" you should keep things real casual. i dont think anyone should go as far as to literally date multiple people at once because you just end up pissing people off. i dont like to feel like shit and i dont like making other feel like shit either

all this said, i dated 4 girls at one time, fuck, years ago...and that was such a headache. and yeah, dated.

banging 4 different girls, that's a different story. but dating? too much stress.

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Originally posted by lücid also, i would hope that anyone who isn't in a serious relationship, whether they're dating or sleeping with one person or ten, takes every step to protect themselves and their partner against diseases.

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Originally posted by lücid RJT gave me AIDS

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Originally posted by DJ RJT

first thought: what is RJT doing in a relationship thread?
second thought: guess that's what i get for trying to date you while i still had a boyfriend!

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what a bunch of fooken drivel. did your vagina finally come in while you were away?

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Originally posted by Orbax The Golden Rule, as cheesy as it is sometimes, helps. Even if its not sexual...Think of calling up a girl and shes gonna go on a date with Bobby tonight. Say youve thought of something really fun and awesome to do and she says sorry, I already am going on the date. Doesnt make you feel very special does it? Doesnt make you feel like this person is ready to make an effort and put some energy into the relationship and see if it works out. You reap what you sow. and I can guarantee a relationship where 1 of the partners doesnt feel special is a doomed one. As much as guys hate to admit it, it feels good to be needed and to know that out of everyone else, youre the guy who gets to be with this girl. Takes all the magic out of a relationship to juggle them like they are types of desserts.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange what a bunch of fooken drivel. did your vagina finally come in while you were away?

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Dont worry though SO. We all still respect you.

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Originally posted by lücid first thought: what is RJT doing in a relationship thread? second thought: guess that's what i get for trying to date you while i still had a boyfriend!

Lawl... I needed some comic relief to take me away from the trainwreck marathon I'm running on my decks right now trying to record another demo...

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