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| quote: | Originally posted by nusty
We decided that regardless of what religion we belong to we are raising kids to be Buddhist since they are pretty much the only truely tolerant religion out there that is not supremely attached to cult status in our minds. I think buddhism has by far the best morals and teachings of the various religions I know of. But if they don't want any part of it, then I fully respect that choice too as long as they still turn out to be good moral people... if not then back to Buddhism sunday school they go! 
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How about just a good old dose of utilitarian tolerance?
How about teaching your kids the prisoner's paradox?
People don't need religion and Sunday school to be *good* people.
The best lesson you can ever teach children is this. It's a game/teaching tactic I learned in high school.
- each gets a few bucks up front (for little kids, use some kind of "candy tokens" or something which are exchanged for candy after the game). The idea is to get the most tokens possible.
- every round, they vote X or Y. If:
- all vote X -> everybody loses a bit of money.
- all vote Y -> everybody gets a bit of money.
- some vote X, some vote Y -> the X's take a little bit of money from the Y's. The X's get more money than they would if everyone voted Y. They less people that vote X, the more money they get (since there are more Ys to give it to them).
- ideally, the scheme should work out that with more Xs
The outcome:
- first, they'll vote randomly.
- second, they'll soon realize that it's ALWAYS better to vote X
- third, eventually all vote X, do this every round, and start losing.
- fourth, they'll realize that the only way they can win is if everyone votes Y.
- fifth, there will be some traitors who will still vote X and screw everyone else over
- goto third
- repeat many times until eventually they learn to all vote Y, start winning, start feeling GREAT and then they've learned how to be proper human beings.
This game is ideal because it uses positive and negative reinforcement, as the real world does, and isn't based on some "if you be bad, you'll go to hell" mentality. I think all children should learn to do this in school. This lesson is more valuable than ANYTHING religion can teach a child.
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I am nobody. Nobody is perfect. Therefore I am perfect.
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