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Originally posted by shaolin_Z Well, because people making baseless assumptions and asserting them really annoys the crap out of me. Second, you've been spamming the shit out of my threads lately.

That spam was not entirly my fault. Did you see that the Canadian guy spammed too. We had gotten of topic that was it. I like your threads.

They have a good point to make.

And I feel bad when no one writes in them.

They are very good threads.


I don't make assertive and baseless assumptions. Maybe generalizations yes but they are not assertive or anything of what you said.

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Originally posted by Magnetonium Maybe I am a bit feminine, but I've met a lot of people, and most men do have sex on their mind. And I love women, but I am not the one who stares at their ass/boobs all the time. Today this pretty lady came on the bus, and I noticed, as usual, many other guys on the bus periodically looking at her butt and boobs. And thats what most guys think and talk about with other guys ... women. I have managed to wrestle control over my own filthy mind. Self-control is very good for your own goals and women like men who are willing to give extra care, extra few nice words to her without staring at her ass half of the time. Many women, except sluts, are fed up with how men stare at them whenever they go.

Yeah, that's true. Women are used to guys drooling over them all the time and find guys who don't quite interesting alot of times. I fall in that category because, due to my values, I'm not interested in banging as many women as possible, so I have little reason to be constantly checking them out. Plus, this may be hard to believe for alot of you, but unlike most guys, sex ins't high on my priority list when I'm considering a relationship. So I know exactly what you're talking abot Magnetonium. The reason why it probably never occured to 99% of men is cuz they're constantly drooling over women.

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Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

When I hit puberty and for the next few years I went through the drama and stress of a man checking women out most of the time. I eventually got smarter and managed to control myself, i didnt want to be like a dog anymore. It requires some compromises with yourself, like telling yourself that its better for you and the woman you like to put your sexual desires aside. It feels good now. This way you can concentrate on other things in life and relationship, this builds stronger character and keeps you more organized. Sex will come later ... its just if you think about it all the time, it will cloud your judgement ... like a slightly drunk person trying to drive - its dangerous and brings out often not the best qualities in man!

Concentrate!

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Shaolin_Z, so girls approach you and play with you, and you turn them down? Give some recent examples, please

LOL, can you imagine how mad they are

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd Shaolin_Z, so girls approach you and play with you, and you turn them down? Give some recent examples, please lol

Well, just a few off the top of my head. I just moved into a new apartment complex recently and my neighbor, and this was the first time I met her, was trying to have sex with me that very night. Another neighbor of mine who lives a few doors down is always checking me out. I went ot see Digweed a couple week ago or so, and I got off the dance floor and sat on a couch for a break, and this chick sitting next to me grabbed me and my hand (total stranger, and she didn't even seem like she's had alot to drink). Those are just a few off the stop of my head. I won't get into specifics as to why I don't really respond to any of it, alot of it has to do with my values, but alot of it also has to do with the fact that I don't really find most people period worth even associating with to begin with, let alone women. And it's not because of arragance or anything like that, considering how self-centered and selfish most people are, and their lack of consideration for other is a real turn off for me. Sorry, I kind of went on a tangent there.

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"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by shaolin_Z Well, just a few off the top of my head. I just moved into a new apartment complex recently and my neighbor, and this was the first time I met her, was trying to have sex with me that very night. Another neighbor of mine who lives a few doors down is always checking me out. I went ot see Digweed a couple week ago or so, and I got off the dance floor and sat on a couch for a break, and this chick sitting next to me grabbed me and my hand (total stranger, and she didn't even seem like she's had alot to drink). Those are just a few off the stop of my head. I won't get into specifics as to why I don't really respond to any of it, alot of it has to do with my values, but alot of it also has to do with the fact that I don't really find most people period worth even associating with to begin with, let alone women. And it's not because of arragance or anything like that, considering how self-centered and selfish most people are, and their lack of consideration for other is a real turn off for me. Sorry, I kind of went on a tangent there.

LOL

Good post.

Shalin lemme guess you only hang out with unique ppl?

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid LOL Good post. Shalin lemme guess you only hang out with unique ppl?

Well, I suppose alot of them do fall into the "unique" category. But people I'm generally interested in associating with are people who eigther have a relatively high IQ/EQ (that usually makes for interesting conversation) or people who're genuinly friendly or "nice" for lack of a better term, etc. I don't think most people fall into any of those categories.

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"The Greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge." -Stephen Hawking
"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by HardTranceProd LOL, can you imagine how mad they are

Yeah, especially if they're really hot/attractive women, they get really pissed off. lol.

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"The Greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge." -Stephen Hawking
"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by shaolin_Z or people who're genuinly friendly or "nice" for lack of a better term, etc. I don't think most people fall into any of those categories.

I fall into that term. What are the odds. Has it ever occured to you, that if you talk with somebody they might actually open up to you? You probably have tried that and so have I. It's hard finding people who would accept you the way you are and not expect you to change in order to 'fit' with them.

Have a good afternoon, Z.

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Originally posted by metalgearsolid I fall into that term. What are the odds. Has it ever occured to you, that if you talk with somebody they might actually open up to you? You probably have tried that and so have I. It's hard finding people who would accept you the way you are and not expect you to change in order to 'fit' with them. Have a good afternoon, Z.

Likewise .

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"The Greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge." -Stephen Hawking
"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by Magnetonium The woman will very likely not cheat on you if you'll be able to satisfy her and make her happy ;-) if she's happy and satisfied, why would she? however, for a man even that might not be enough. And this is not true for all cases, but for most of them.

Yeah, that's pretty much true. But I'm not interested in women with no values (i.e. sense of loyalty/self-respect).

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"The Greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge." -Stephen Hawking
"First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me— and there was no one left to speak out for me." -Martin Niemöller

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Originally posted by shaolin_Z Yeah, especially if they're really hot/attractive women, they get really pissed off. lol.

I know several guys like that. They are very attractive to women (look like GQ models), get enough female attention, yet their mindset is somehow in the wrong place... they're either slow, indecisive, or just not happy enough... or they don't necessarily feel like it.

The converse is also true. As I posted in some other thread, I went to college with some guys who very short and a little ugly, but they got laid literally left and right, and were amazingly promiscuous.

The universe always balances things out this is yet another thing that you will learn after you read the book "Sperm Wars"

God, can I recommend this book enough???