do it, be upfront. nothing sexier than a girl who can get to the point using a straight, linear path lol.

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Originally posted by Slylee How does it start? How does it end? Should I just tell him what I would like from him?

i think in your case it might be best just to tell him honestly and bluntly exactly what you're looking for so that you're both clear on the situation. sure, he might have an on-again-off-again girlfriend but how do you know that once you two start fucking that he's not gonna fall totally in love with you? i know most people think girls are the ones who get all clingy and attached, but guys can be just as bad, sometimes even worse.

but again, this isn't something you can just sit down and talk about and then jump into the bed the next minute while ripping each others clothes off. you just kind of have to let things go with the flow and feel the situation out. it seems like you guys are close and comfortable with each other so this could be great for both of you, yet there's also a chance it could ruin your friendship. so just be careful!

and jamie, you have NOTHING to be afraid of. you're a beautiful girl who probably has a lot of power over most guys, and this guy has probably wanted to fuck you ever since he's known you. when he finds out you wanna have sex with him he'll probably squirt a bit of pre-jizz on the inside of his trousers.

good luck and happy fucking.

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Originally posted by Slylee i'm not going to molest him in the car! lol i think i should just be upfront about what i want from him. he likes girls who are really up front and confident and just say what's up, i can tell. he'll probably appreciate it if i just get it out of the way. but i'm scared. lol

if he is the type that wants everything up front then yes just tell him. then molest him.

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Originally posted by bas Undies with a dickhole aren't good for guys. Your balls can get caught in them. That's why I prefer to go over the gate instead of through the fence.

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Originally posted by Noree Pr000000f!

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Originally posted by Slylee k here's the deal... Just wanted to know if it can be done without drama. I understand that probably the girls are the ones in the end who start developing feelings, but I think I might be able to do this without turning into that chick. I'd really like to have some steady sex with the same guy because I don't like the idea of just hooking up with randoms all the time and I'm horny as hell lately. I like to feel comfortable and know that when I go out and party with my girls and I'm horny on the way home, I can go to that one person and it's cool. I have someone in mind, and I'm sure he's game, but I really don't like him as anything more than a friend right now. I mean, I don't look at him as a potential person I could "fall" for at all. He has an on again, off again girlfriend in law school up north who can't make time for him now, so they're "off" now, and he told me they'll "probably get married some day" but in the meantime he's giving her space and said he didn't promise her that if something came along, he would pass it up. So it's perfect right? I am SO not in relationship mode at all right now, so I think I'll be perfectly capable of this. I've known him since middle school btw, and we went to prom together as friends. Obviously we caught up with each other via myspace again. We definitely have a cool friendship history. We're going to the movies and drinks this weekend. It's too soon to do it then right? haha I'm going NUTS. How does it start? How does it end? Should I just tell him what I would like from him?

if it works out for both of you why not....
just realize that this will most likely cause you not to be friends anymore once this arrangement is done.If you can deal with this then go ahead...if not find someone you are a little less attached to and consider safe.It seems like there might be a little too much history between you 2 to pull it off...but then again you never know.What about the innevitable night where you call to hook up and he is busy with someone else.Will you be able to handle it?I am no virgin, but i have never done the fuck buddy thing just because its messy and actually holds you back if you aren't careful...thats just my opinion though.

Well I liked lucid’s post but anf’s makes sense too.

But I think we have a good enough history as friends where it wouldn’t fall apart when it stopped (the no-strings attached sex).
I would be fine. I don’t want this guy as a boyfriend at all.

He used to be a little geek kind of and i was best friends with his older sister (she was a year ahead of us, he was in my grade), and i used to go in his room and bug him all the time and make fun of him (this was like 7th grade) and he read comic books.

he's still goofy and funny, and really hot now. he admitted to me via aim the other night that he used to draw comic strips of us doing it and that he wanted me really bad.

He definitely loves his “gf”, I could tell by the way he spoke about her, like he’s kinda hurting inside, but he also totally has that “guy’s guy” side to him too, so I’m sure he’s toughing it out and on the prowl for some ass, taking advantage of the “break”.

Maybe the conversation will just flow when we go out for drinks and I can bring it up then. So if we make out or something, maybe afterwards should I be like, “I don’t know about you, but I could really use a fuck buddy right now, what do you say?”

Hahaha that’s so slutty!

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

a wounded animal will always expect more nurturing...

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak a wounded animal will always expect more nurturing...

u mean like he will?


How should i bring it up?? seriously, what do i say?

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee u mean like he will? How should i bring it up?? seriously, what do i say?

well...i still think you might be asking for it...especially if there are hurt feelings and pseudo girlfriends.Don't talk about it...just do it.Talking is what people in relationships do.If you just want to fuck, treat it like what it is.Just a fuck.

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Originally posted by Slylee discuss...

Had one for over the first full year, and on and off since then, 'til last year - she got married, recently. And yes, I attended the wedding. Overall, we're still good friends, after six years of intermittent cruisin'.

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Originally posted by EXTREMUM Had one for over the first full year, and on and off since then, 'til last year - she got married, recently. I attended the wedding. We're still good friends, after six years of intermittent cruisin'.

does the dude know you were banging his woman while they were dating?