Maybe it's true that acting like an asshole helps, but I'm not gonna act like one just because of that. I'd rather be me, instead of some poser obsessed with getting pussy cause he is so upset with his own self-worth that he must take advantage of dependent girls with self-esteem problems.

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Trance...a state of mind.

here is my theory

I somewhat agree with the dude who wrote the story..... many girls/women like a guy that doesn't wrap themseslves around their legs...they want mystery and excitement.
with this in mind if you are the nicest guy who does everything for his girl, then you are in their terms boring and dull.
A little asshole is good but not to the point where you are rude and degrating.
Now here is where the good guys come last thing comes into play....this rule only applies if you are a nice guy and you attempt to go after the HOT SLUTTY bitches....who don't respect nice guys...
If you target the proper market you will find yourself a nice girl...after all some chicks just want money and glamour and father figures in their lives......others want companionship, love, security, intimacy and all that other stuff but mainly true friendship....

So in conclusion.....if you are a donw to earth guy, then stop using your dick but use your heart when you look for girls.
And if you are looking for sluts then use your cock and macho attitude and big muscles whatever to get chicks and Im sure you will do fine [ as if you already didn't know this ]

I for myself am 23 years old and I have had 3 long relationships...I am in one right now that has been for almost 2 years and I can say that I am one of the lucky nice guys who found a nice girl that I Can see a potential future with

thanks

i was a timid guy too but not any more. i dont give a ----- how i approach a girl now and what she will think of me because of my first impression. i finally realized if u wont talk to them or start acting like a fake fuck how will u ever fuckin get in a relationship. u have to take risks. and even if u fail u learn from them. dont feel down if she rejects u. i dont. move on to another. if ur really shy think for a moment that she can be a shy girl too. that way ur confidence wont go down and u can start conversring with her easily. thats what sets people apart that are successful in life than those that think they dont have the qualities to do it. feel great about urself and dont be afraid of failure cuz failure leads to success